Well first off, i've been around this girl for a couple years, but we don't really no eachother, as i've never met up with her or anything like that.

We text eachother and stuff, but i think i'm stuck inbetween the lets be friends zone, and i don't really know you zone, lol if that's a zone

Couple weeks i ago i asked her if she wanted to come over, and she said she was sick, i dunno if it was true or not though.

And a couple days ago i asked if she would want to go to the movies sometime with me, she said yeah that would be cool, but i never made a planed date to go.

I dunno what to do from here, i think i'm kinda stuck in the friends zone, should i try and get her to the movies still.?

Need some opinions guys
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I'm 17, so that's why i asked to go to the movies, not really anything else to do around here.

Cliffs

- I'm interested, but i dunno if she is, or is kinda weirded out, lol
- Asked her to come over, declined with being sick
- Asked to go to movies sometime, said yes, but kinda shy about it
- Dunno what to do from here, need help


This sounds more confusing then it really is, just i dunno what to do from here,? be more aggresive about geting a date,?


Thanks, total - Newb

You're going about this all wrong.

You don't ask her to go anywhere with you, you tell her that you're going somewhere and that she CAN join you. You're LETTING her experience your lifestyle. You are the prize and she needs to work to get YOU. Who cares if she's interested or not, once you hangout that's when the magic happens. That's when you make her interested.

Make it sound like you already had plans and you're letting her go if she wants to, that's the best way to approach it. I'm going to go see XXXXXX movie on friday, have your shoes on by 7 if you want to come.

jbS10 is right. what i suggest is get a croup of friends together including females. make plans for and movies or whatever. Movies is to common try bowling, going to a pool hall, or camping some where for the night, a party or whatever. Then call her up and say my and some friends are going here. then jbS10 speal to finish it off.

Thanks guys, makes alot more sense to do it that way.

Lets see if this works.