How to deal with girls who give you more attention that you think you deserved, like they are playing with you, giving kino, starting conversations, etc. How gaming this girls is differente from the "standard"? how can i use her teasing in my favor?"

I meet this girl in my new college, i started teasing her and ignoring her, while i was seeing a magazine she had (i was really interested in it), so she started showing it to me, doing kino and such, and i did the same. After some time, a friend of her asked me what did she show me and if i did like it. I said "yes, because .. blablabla", and then both of them looked at each other and smiled like "we know what u liked", the lamers . I teased her more and more, and when i left she gave me more attention than normal.

She seems one of this type of girls right?

Please give me some tips


Shadow

Tease her back, be more flirty, and advance at your own pace.

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yeah, she definitely seems into you, keep it up.

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Well, some 1 told me she has a BF and for some time, but she is calm and not manipulative. So i would guess she is not happy in her relationship. What you guys think?

Be careful with girls who touch you a lot - they fall into three categories:

a) Confident happy ones with boyfriends.

b) Very attractive ones who enjoy f*cking with you.

c) Genuine girls who are interested.

I don't know what you look like or behave like, so am going to extrapolate from the fact you're analysing an exchage over a magazine:

a) 10% chance she's happy with a boyfriend. Girls unhappy in a relationship do not flirt happily - they still feel guilty if they're seeking to provoke a breakup by bringing in a third party.

b) 80% chance she's giving you protean gestures. [What are those and certified way of turning it against - below \/]

c) 10% chance she's genuinely interested. Only about 10% of girls are cool enough to flirt with you on an equal basis - as was happening here. Most of them want you to make more moves than them.

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So the 80% of attractive girls giving prothean gestures (I'm assuming she is very attractive) do it for fun, the power, and observing the reaction. They'll pick a guy who seems innocent - or not innocent but too stupid to ever be able to do anything but be lead to dead ends.

How to deal with it: Take offence. Next time she touches you, rebuke: Tell her gently, looking softly hurt; "Don't patronise me." Say it in the same tone of voice you would say the words in a different context: "Let's not make this difficult." Wise, affectionate, but baleful.

Chain reaction: She'll ask what you mean. You say nevermind; wise, baleful, slightly amused. She asks again: Respond thus. If she doesn't: Leave a pause then deliver the same.

"I think its cruel, someone as pretty as you, how could you be interested in me."

1. Honest-sounding compliment.
2. You're in command of the situation.
3. You're saying you're not interested - but putting the idea in her that its a possibility she could be.
4. You've given her an emotional hook. Now she wants to demonstrate she isn't leading you on, because it makes her look like nasty. Girls like this enjoy the cruelness of the game, but only if they're not confronted with it. Her only option is to demonstrate, even by increments, more interest, to prove she wasn't f*cking with you.

You forgive with a smile that says you don't mind. But leave it *just* awkward enough afterwards that she feels you think the same thing - now you're humouring her. That will drive her mad.

I could tell you what happens from there.

But I won't.

Experience: Its worked twice, on exactly this very attractive teasey type.

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I don't know who he is, or where he is, and it doesn't matter. The only thing he gave me were his eyes.

Great post Azules.

First of all, it sounds like she is fucking with you, if you have demonstrated interest and she has only teased. So the thing to do here is to neg. Take her down a notch or two, and she will feel like she needs to qualify to please you. Try not to send those negs when her friends are around, because it may make them hate you if they hear it, and that can kill your game. Are we talking a 6/7/8 or a 9/10 here? That makes a huge difference.

Hi i have just read this thread and it seems like a similar situation i'm in. A girl i know i really into me by touching me and holding me, teasing me etc. What do i do when she teases me and then tries to DHV by showing me that she used to date good looking men, some of which are models?