I was able to chat up a couple HB tonight while smoking outside a bar, they invited me to drink with them..

I didn't go right away, but after my friends left I stuck around and had a drink with them...I got a good vibe from the hotter of the two...She even asked to add me on facebook, so I did and then gave her my phone to get her number....it was smooth sailing, until two dudes come out and work their game on them.

I was stuck standing their while two dudes chatted them both up and the HB's seemed into them. I ended up getting my tab, telling the ladies goodbye and leaving...I know that wasn't probably the recommended method, but knew I would just look pissy if I didn't leave. I got a text about 10 minutes after I left from the one that asked why I left. I laughed it off and said I was at the place way too long and needed to get out. I asked where they were going after? Never heard back...

Anyway, if that were to happen in the future what would the approved method of been? I'm not going to stand their and play a fool, yet leaving was probably not the best way to handle it. I would of got my ass kicked from these two guys, so tough guy wasn't going to work either.

Also, any chance or suggestions to recovery with this broad? I'm not completely broken up about it since she does look like someone that is slutty and flaky, but I would like her big cans in my face if there was a method to do so.

You can either do this .

Become the most funniest and interesting person in the conversation ( its hard)

or undermine everything the guy says in a nice way

Guy " so yeah ive got this red sports car "

you " Wow thats amazing , what engine ? how fast etc . ( you seem interested ) and then you would say something like " well you know what they say about guys with sports cars " ( small dicks ) etc

do this with whatever theyre wearing as well . " Wow I love your fashion sense , where did you buy that from ?"

guy : answer

you : Oh im surprised i thought it would have been a camp shop , but it works well
and if you realy want to be an ass " maybe next time you could buy that top in a mans size "


Your complimenting him and undermining him if you get me .

Yes, the only way of winning over other men is to be better than them. And that is normally not so hard.

On occasion you will find a guy who is unbeatable, awesome, you just found an equal, he is your new wing!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

hahaha, like that line

ok so I don't think leaving was too bad, far better than lingering and trying weasel back in to the convo. but you fucked up when you asked "where are you going after?" that was needy sounding. i would have either not answered her text at all or just gave her a short vague answer - you're the man who has other shit to do you're not gonna wait around for some whoowa.

as for trying to salvage it, do this: wait 3-5 days then start gaming her via text, DO NOT ask or even hint at meeting up, just run game. nothing to lose.

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"advance until resistance is met"
- Julius Caesar, Rome