hey guys today was my 1st time on the field and i just blew it up... first i didnt follow the 3 sec. rule.. i saw the girl and didnt have enought confidence to go and talk to her and i think she saw me.. well then this was in the mall so i saw her again and this time i went there and talk to her it was a disaster...

she was sitting at a table and there were 2 chairs free so i pick out one and sit and i said to her:

I: hey i just got a minute and have this important question...
B6: what..?
I: do you prefere cats or dogs..?
B6: why...?
I: see my cousing will turn 9 next week and i though about buying her a present so i talk to my aunt and she told me that my cousing like them both...
B6: did you just make it out...?
I: hey no... i just want an opinion... (this was the first thing that came to my mind.. i though she knew that opening or something... also i was so nervious...)
B6: well cats
I: oh really.. i went to the pet store and got even more confused yesterday... but what if my cousin would prefer a dog..? (i was like frozen at that moment so i though about the handshake routine... )
I: hey i've got to go... ( and she shakehand with her other hand..)
I: thats not the way to shakehand...
(and she pointed her drink she was holding with her right hand...)

so i just leave.... well that was soooo terrible... i fail with the 3 sec. rule, i shouldn't had sit, she had her bitch-shield because she was so cold with me... =( and my boddy language wasnt the best... i paied much atention to her... but well i overcome my public embarrasse fealing jeje i just though this was a practice and that practice will help me with the girl i really want even if i have to be a boyfriend distroyer and when i was talking i felt a really great feeling i dont really know what was it but it felt so good... also i think next time i will make the blind date routine... and when she says i should go to the blind date is ok to say : but what if its another man...? with a little laugh... well guys i'd be glad to recive any advice.

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Man, don't think of it as a disaster! If you were your old self, would you have even spoke to her? Think of everything as a learning experience. Even when things blow up in your face, you learn. You learn what not to do. Gotta stay positive man!

yeah man, i remember on friday i couldnt spoke a set of 3 girls... but today i was with more energy even if i knew i was going to fail...

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