Alright, so first off, I want to get this out there- I am painfully aware of the fact that I have this affliction, or disease, or horrible condition known only as one-itis. A lot of you are already cussing under your breath, or just plain out laughing at me, but bear with me here.

I've know about PUA stuff for a couple years now; a lot of the stuff has been part of my knowledge for maybe 3 years (but not in use). I naturally neg people a lot, and I've recently come back to this, but I still have that one problem. So I'm asking you for a favor, or making a request. Whatever. Even though I have one-itis, could you help me try to get this gal, and if it doesn't work out then fine, I'm cool with it, I'll move on to bigger and better things.

Deal?

Okay, so my situation:

I've known this girl for maybe a month. I actually met her about 3 months ago at orientation, but talked to her/hung out with her for about an hour before meeting her again at university. She's this super chill girl, and is pretty tight about everything.

To get things out there, I don't think I've been LJBFed yet, but I don't know where I stand. I've been building kino with her, and there is comfort I guess, but I can't get a read on her. I get IOI's, but then sometimes I don't, and it really doesn't make sense. I guess when you have one-itis, a lot of stuff goes to the shitter, so sorry again.

Anyway, I, for a while, was reverting to AFC behaviour. Basically I hung out in her room all the time, but recently I've been more of just staying in my room (which is one floor away) instead of visiting her, and so she's come down a couple times for no real reason, except to see me I guess? One time she brought her friend over, so I payed more attention to her friend... Either way, she comes down, but I don't know what to do. If I go all out for her, basically try to K-Close or anything, it could potentially ruin whatever else I could have. How do I put it- if she's like "what the fuck," then things get quickly awkward with the entire floor above me. I'd be shitting where I sleep.

Please don't dismiss this with just a, "give the up," or "i don't care," or "just go for it consequences be damned," or "LOL NOOB HAHA YOU SUCK *flame*"

So right now, where do I even stand, and what can I do? Damnit, sorry guys, I feel like I'm making the PUA world cringe right now.

Anyway, thanks in advance.

I'd love to help you, but is there any chance of summing that up a bit, or does it need to be that long, cause I'm rather buzy and lazy.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Read my post it may help ur going to have to be the one to make up ur mind. I'm going to tell right now u need to go for the kiss or she'll be kissing some other guy next week NOT YOU, it may already be too late for u staying in comfort for so long.

stop-being-a-lil-b-and-use-kino-vt8419.html

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So u think you can handle this?

"Shit or get off the pot". If your worried about making a floor visit uncomfortable, then you shouldn't be trying to go for someone in your building.

next time your alone with her, tell her "come here" and hold her hands facing her, wait a second and ask "are you nervous" or say "you look nervous" . . . if she looks nervous one bit then you should go for the kiss, her answer "yes, Im nervous or No Im not nervous" is beside the point you should be able to tellif shes figgety or any other signs.

On the off chance that she pushes off and says "what are you doing?!". You can damage control and say "I was just trying to helo you relax"