i noticed some veterans are leaving because of a huge number of newbies are coming and lookin for quick ways to get laid or whatever, was this forum seriously alot different before the show came out?

theO

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It was a lot better even just at the beginning of september. A lot less flame wars and people just looking to get a quick fuck and a lot more people interested in improving themselves.

Rye,

Where else can we go, because it does seem like this place has moved away from the its overall purpose of collectively enhancing our individual personal knowledge of the arts....


to many nonsense posts...and then reposts of the same questions day in and day out.

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Shrugs im new to this and i have to admit i did find out from the VH1 then i did read the game. But i love this forum and im not looking to get laid i really want to get better at being more socially active.

I'm personally staying on this forum as well as the one where all the guys that recently left went to. I like this one because there are a lot more people on here and some of them DO actually want to learn PU and aren't just trying to fuck as many girls as possible and don't care who they are, just how hot they are. I like to help these guys out and it improves my game by learning through their mistakes and working out the best way of doing things if I ever run into that situation.

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~ Rye

Yep, here just trying to improve myself also, too bad the vets. are deciding to leave--people like myself can really use their help.

believe it or not...some of us newbies are vets.

I will be helping to the best of my ability

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Newbie vets are great. Its the noobs that need to learn what PU is even about that have made this place lose some value, but I have seen a decrease in stupid posts the last few days. I say, just wait and it will die down, its just a fad right now because of the show.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Yeah, I'll admit I'm new to this forum. But I have been trying to improve all areas of my life, especially this one, for the past year. I REALLY do appreciate the knowledge and expierence of the true PUA's, thanks for sharing. Learning this stuff has given me the ability to be more extroverted and fun naturally. I used to rely on alcohol to escape my shyness.

Anybody looking for the "quick fix" will be dissappointed and move on to something else. Get your inner game together and the rest will follow.

Peace

as long as some decent people stay and are willing to help anyone im totally happy

theO

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I'm also new here. I'm not here just to find a quick way to get laid. i want to improve my social interactions with other people. I also want to improve my confidence.

My advice to you guys is to post more. I know I've seen you before, but with only 4 posts, you aren't getting around much. I started learning a lot faster when I starting getting into the conversations and asking why something a guy did was wrong, or what should have been said and why. You learn faster when you ask questions, or just respond to them, even if you don't know a ton, give your response for a situation and guys can help you learn fix any problems with your game.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

PU and Mystery used to be 2 seperate things, PU was a gameand mystery was a player. Now because of this idolisation they seem to be the same thing, Mystery is PU.

I dont like the influx of noobies because it trivialises the progress i've made. I dont want to be considered a bang wagon jumper.

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What a title!

I've never even heard of this the VH1 show. I've yet to read "the game" but probably will. I've been surfing this site for a couple hours now and of course there's some bullshit, but the majority seems pretty genuine. I was referred to this site by a friend and I'm here not to bag as many skanks as I can. I'm here because I'm a "nice guy" who's 33 years old and need to get my head out of my ass!

hey i wanted to introduce myself. im a noob to this site and kinda a nooob to the game... but im not here for the "get laid quick" thing.. thats pretty lame. im a engineering student so i love to learn in deapth how things work.. and learning the ins and outs of social dynamics can be a very powerful thing. it also helps to better so many different areas of ones life.

it really sucks that the vh1 show is effecting this group how it is... its really sad that our culture is so influenced by television... but ol well.. give it a month or two then anyone that is not truely devoted to it will flake out..

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