I had a date with HB10 where i was too pussy to k-close. Some information on the situation:

She is the hottest girl i've gamed so far, and we both have the same interests. She is 5 years older than me, (im 19 she's turning 24). She gets hit on ALL the time, and she is an extremely touchy/flirty girl. She will touch/flirt with guys she has NO interest in, thinking she is just being "nice". I'm talking about like 90% of guys knows. I'm not sure if she is an attention whore or if she honestly thinks she's just being nice.

Before gaming her, people around me would say things like "she has a thing for you" or w/e just from their observations. I didn't think of it because she is normally flirty with everyone. Then i gave her my number, and she invited me out with her. Now, she picked me up and we went, flirting/touching on the way there. We hung out pretty much the whole day, i kept the kino up, but we met with a couple of her friends and i didn't feel comfortable kinoing her infront of them after just meeting them. After they left (which was about 5hours later), i held her hand and whatever, but i never pulled the trigger. I kept thinking in the back of my head whether or not she wanted me to go for it, her being naturally touch/feely. After not going for it, she seemed cold and distant, she wouldn't look me in the eyes and initiating kino.

After coming back, I stayed by her place where her sibling's bday party was going on. Now she basically ignored me for the next couple hours until i left. I know i fucked up and acted like a pussy, not going in for the kiss which could end up to me being put in the friends zone. Also, looking back on it going out with a girl for the first time for 13hours on the first date is a horrible idea.

I just want to know, how do i go on about getting a day 3 with this chick, so i can escalate better to not get LJBF. Do I wait a week for her to text/call me or should I take the initiative to go out again with her?

Happens to the best. Dont worry just keep sargin and keep her in roatation till its clear that you guys are strictly friends. Dont get one itis. Keep her as a friend and move on.

Hesitation leads to masturbation my friend. You're just going to have to psych yourself out and try to kiss her. If it works awesome, if not then keep her as a friend. hot girls have hot friends.

If you guys were holding hands and hanging out all day then I'd say she wants it to go somewhere. You can set up a time to hang out and then call it a date and see how she reacts if you're uncomfortable and want to try and calibrate. It's a little AFC but it's worked in delicate situations for me before. usually if they're uncomfortable with it as a "date" they'll say so.

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

Yea thanks i see what you're getting at, maybe she is unsure whether i view her as a friend or not, and that's why she stopped the kino. The main thing i did wrong was staying for too long and dragging it out, which killed some attraction in the process. I need to start ending the interactions on high notes. The next time I see her, should i start kinoing again, or wait until she does, and also i prob won't see her for a week because i will be out of town, so should i wait for her to text me or should i send a text to keep her reminded of me?

Something that alot of guys don't really consider is what the girl is thinking. Why is she so distant? She may have liked you man (highfive for that), and with you not kissing her she probably thinks that you don't like her, etc, etc, she invested herself for nothing blah blah and she was bummed out. Can you believe it? That SHE was the one bummed out. I know this is how girls feel alot of the time, they think they did something wrong.
So let's go back to you. Thus, you should have kissed her, you know that, so why didn't you? (I'm just trying to create a correct mindset for you, bear with me). Maybe you thought you didn't want to ruin anything. Perhaps you thought you would get rejected. The matter being it does not matter at all. What would you ruin? Who cares if you get turned down, YOU especially shouldn't care. You know your the man, a sexual being, that there are tons of other women that you can have so it doesn't matter. Let's talk a bit more on what you could have ruined if you kissed her. Nothing. What's there to ruin? This is something girls just don't understand. They don't get it when a guy feels this way because they think the same thing "what would be ruined?" Turns out that by "not trying to ruin it" we often ruin it. Just keep escalating and leading. Kissing if anything would make the relationship better. If it's too fast she will let you know and then respect you for slowing down.
I am only trying to build you up with a better mindset and understanding so you can get the kiss next time. You can do it. Cheers.

Yeah I'm with andereffect on this especially at end of his post. If you try to kiss a girl and she turns you down, you haven't necessarily ruined anything. If she enjoys your company she's still going to want to be friends even if she turns you down.

AndreN I heard something the other day that I'm trying to use more in my life and I think it applies here sooo.... "Always leave when they’re asking you to stay; never stay until they ask you to leave" I forget where I got this quote from but yes ending everything on a high note leaves them wanting more. It's like a movie with a cliff hanger. You're eager to find out what will happen next.

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

I think too many guys consider what a girl is thinking too much of the time. It's the thought of "what will she think" that often stopped me from going in for the kiss. I have a feeling it's also what stopped AdreN.

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Thanks a lot guys, i really appreciate the help, im just gunna see if i can get another date and if she doesn't want to, it's on to the next one...