Quick question:

Is it wise to tell a girl about dreams you've had about her? Not sexual dreams but dreams involving her nonetheless.

I have a girl I get along quite well with, we're getting quite comfortable with each other. Lately I've had dreams about her and told her about them. She enjoys the stories and gets a laugh from them.

I think telling her is a bit romantic in the "you're the girl of my dreams" kind of way and it shows her she's not just another girl. Girls like to know you're thinking about them after all. Plus the dreams are kind of funny and the dream events peak her interest as things she'd like to do in real life. For example, go out for dinner or go puppy shopping.

Let me know your opinion.

Thanks.

To be honest with you, this is my opinion though, I would avoid telling girls about your dreams if it involves alot of intimacy because it makes you seem kind of dependent of her. However I see how you could use dreams in a more humorous context for example even making up something like

"I had a dream about you where we entered a soap box race as a team and the day of the race you stole the car and won first all by yourself"

Or

"I had a dream where you hid all my shoes and socks so I had to go to work in barefeet"

Just something easy-going like that I know you can't control your dreams about her but I would only tell a girl if it was a light-hearted dream like so.

Oh yeah they were definitely light hearted. One was about an adventure trying to buy a puppy and the other was about she and her friend running a business. We had a good laugh together at both.

I wouldn't go telling her about a hot passionate dream where she and i were at a candlelit dinner or something. That's a bit much unless we were deep in the seduction process.