hi

im aleady a graduate,age 27 ( i look abit older thu) i spend sometimes in campus libary at uni near by where i live. i have already met 4-7 girls and have them on my facebook...onething i find hard is that im not studying there im a full time professional. and first thing girls ask me is what im studying !!

whats the best answer to give?
i normally say im here to use the library on my spare times but i think its a DLV and fear that they might think im lonely , deparate & strange ...

should i stop going to the library ?whats the best alternative answer I can give? dont want to say im studying here bcuz sooner they will find out.

how about saying im training to become xxx(something cool) at some other institute near by? ( not uni ). this way at least they think im studying too..

is it really weird for one like me to hang in library? can they tell what my intention is ? is it too obvious?
Ps: i just moved to this new town...

thanks

To be honest, I think you should change sarging spots a bit. You can still pick up girls at the library but have some other area's as well like, hmmm, Clubs!? Clubs are awesome for picking up girls. Anyway I'd say that I study parttime aside from working. But it's important to have an image of a mature, succesful man, only then will it not be a DLV. Make sure that you look busy and serious in what you're doing. So don't just walk around in the library looking for girls.

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thanks for the reply, i try clubs too, infact i was out last night ...
but rather hanging in library and browsing from library instead of sitting alone at home...... library is my last resort thing.
i take my laptop with me and do all my research and online stuff from there.

First, a word of caution: college/universities have a tight community where everyone knows everyone else. News of your rejections tend to travel a lot around faster. That's why most mPUAs like Mystery or DeAngelo recommend practicing in clubs/bars where approaches are so common that it's no big deal - rejections won't spread like wildfire.

Second, a thought: you don't have to answer the question. Be fun, tease, make her guess.
HB: "Hey, what are you studying?"
You: "What major do I look like?" [smile] "By the way, I like your bracelet/shirt's logo/etc - what's it mean?" [stack another routine]
HB: "Oh, I got it at [some place]"
You: [Say something about how common you see it but how good it still looks, or some other neg]
HB: [Giggle giggle]
You: Hey, this one time... [DHV story]

You can dodge the "what are you studying" bullet entirely. Think of it as a challenge to control the conversation. Perhaps that could be your mission. To put YOUR frame around the convo, instead of hers.

If you MUST answer, say something absurdly funny. Like how Style says "I'm a zippo repairman" when girls ask about his job.

Third, also try to meet guys too. Having some guys who think you're cool and to vouche for you as wings or to invite you to parties (with many more girls) makes your life a shit load easier than going solo.

Have fun =)