Over the past few days there's been a thought running in my mind in regards to the whole 'learning to attract women' ideology. Sure, we all agree we have a bit of an issue and we're rectifying that through various methods and means, whatever they may be.

But I'm interested in a little deeper part of the system: How many of you guys consider yourselves, and have been told, that you're good-looking? Yes, just physically good-looking. Mind you, not by your mother. I'm not asking whether you guys have been told you look like Marlon Brando or a European model - just if you're decently fit and believe so.

My interest in this whole issue is based on several facts:

1) All "pro" PUAs look atleast half decent. Be it David D, Ross Jeffries, Mystery, or anybody you can think of, an internet guru or a live-show-boot-camp artist. I thought over it, and I made three conclusions, all of them seemingly logical: A) It's probably a marketing issue-who would want to read and watch an obese instructor? B) But then aren't they just playing on the same societal boundaries they scoff at? Sure, some do tell you to lose weight, get fit and the like, but who doesn't know that? An overly fat guy knows he has to lose weight. C) Women aren't interested in guys who aren't fit and half-good-looking atleast.

Now C is drawing the line a little far, because we've seen really, pardon my language, ugly men with a bombshell. But unless he's rich and famous, we can call that an exception to the rule-more of a margin of error in a double-blind trial. All three conclusions are likely, with A being the strongest.

2) If you're atleast half-good-looking, you've been shown interest by women before. It's a given, that's the way the world works. Now what you did with that interest is what brought you here- you didn't escalate, or you couldn't kiss her, you kept doubting the emotions between you two, whatever it may be. You were shown interest but you couldn't take it from there, and you decided to actually learn this stuff. Am I true in saying that?

Why I'm interested in this point is because a lot of us, I'm actually certain, here are good-looking men who've been shown interest but we didn't know what to do with it.

I shall elaborate further on this once I get a few responses from people. I'm pretty interested in this and I'm sure a lot of you could also learn something. It may be a perspective you did not view from before.

Cheers.

Well it is scientific fact that people usually end up with partners of equal attractiveness. However, Ross Jeffries..... attractive?