In my opinion I am not a huge fan of the mini-golf. I tend to do stuff like that with "friends", and I am sure you don't want to be F-zoned! This move has gotten me FZ'd more than once. On my first 1v1 date I like to take them to do something exciting, or a little dangerous.
Once i took a sky diving lesson with a girl I know... however by the end of the day I was hoping that her chute would fail when she jumped out of the plane. jkjk...sorta
Here are a few good choices in my opinion... they always worked for me
Paintball. most girl want to try it, but are waaay to afraid to go out alone. You could take them to a local field, show them the ropes, and then maybe let her beat you once or twice to make her feel good for beating an experianced player.
Snowboarding is also good. Again, a lot of girls want to try it, but nobody has ever been willing to teach them how. Its a GREAT way for Kino because you can help them up, push them down, sit close on the lift ride up, come up behind them and show then this n' that. After the session maybe suggest you go warm up at your place under a nice blanket, and watch a movie.
Ice skating. I use this one as a "teach me how" kind of deal. I tell the girl I have never been ice skating and have always wanted to learn ( i have been skating, and im not that bad). This is how it usually goes:
Me: yeah, i would LOVE to skate but never had anyone to teach me. * sad face*
Target: oh i love skating. i could teach you.
me: ok sounds good. *sets up a date to go*
See this way she feels special because she is teaching you something, and you are showing a softer side by accepting the help.
Hope this helps. Good Luck buddy!
