On a weekend camp from my college, I was gaming a cute HB8. I used Gambler's Stealth Seduction alot: alot of sexuality in the air, a lot of kino, getting closer, whispering in the ear, tongue and cheeck romance teasing, ... Everything went very well! I told a sarge buddy, who also knows about the game the whole story, and he told me that she was realy into me! She seemed like a very social, funny and spontaneous girl, so she deserved a date with me.
I got her number and I planned a second date with her.
So I got a date with her. In fact, I just came back from it, around 1 am we seperated. The date went great! It was cosy, intimate, I tought there was a tention! I used Stealth Seduction again, alot of kino and such, and we talked a lot about sex and what we like and such. It went very smooth and I'm very sure she liked it there with me.
But there is one very strange thing, that also turned me off.
All the time, after we started talking about relationships, she was telling me that she is not looking for a relationship, that she almost never kisses a guy uin a club etc., since she broke up with her boyfriend a year ago. She told me that she had a very bad experience with it, and sincethen she thinks she is asexual, her friends thinks she is a lesbian and blablabla. She even very often called me "mate" or "buddy"! I was realy like "wtf is wrong with her??? Is she desperately trying to make me clear (with a failed subtility) that she doesn't want me in a relationship, like a "let's just be friends"?"
I counter attacked her on 2 ways.
1) Firstly I made fun of her, by making over the top statements like: "yeah sure you will be a spinster till the end of time ... with 14 kittens
". After that, I started cold reading like Mystery and Style like to do, by telling her what she realy wants and how she realy feels, random things like that she is just hurt, and that I know that she isn't asexual at all but just waiting for the right guy who could trigger her emotions again without cheating on her. She agreed. I found out that she often likes to have a specific guy, but when she finaly has him, that he is not a challenge anymore, and thus dumps him. She also told me she likes sex, (she also like giving blow jobs
) and which stances she enjoys. But still she kept on with her talk about tha she almost never kiss a guy, and that she doesn't want relationships, she called me a buddy again.
2) she asked if I was looking for a girl and what I was looking in a girl. Now it was my time to elicite vallues. I told her honestly that I like to flirt alot with multiple girls, that I don't commit myself quickly, that I'm not particulary interested in girls who I close at parties and such, but that if I meet a realy special girl, that I am open for a relationship. I told her that I like to play girls first, but that they then have to proof if me they are worth me. I told her that beauty is common, and that I like shy girls, spontaneous and social girls and a lot more. I said that I often date multiple girls so that I can see which girl I realy like and more random things.
All went well. I don't know how I can be friend zoned, if I am. Basicly I believe that I, even anyone, can get any girl if I or anyone play the game right. But comm'on, she is either a worthless player who doesn't understand that you shouldn't overdisqualify guys and playing toooo hard to get, or she is realy asexual (which is hard to believe for me).
I wonder if she just told me bullshit and that I can keep on gaming, because I like to work for girls and she seems a challenge. I'm realy interested if she realy mean it if she disqualifies me like that, or if she is just testing me.
Anyway, it's not like it's such a problem. I mean i like her, but it's college time and there are plenty of girls! I hate to be LJBFed, but I did not act AFC at all and I didn't do a failed kiss close, so I can still use her as a winggirl. Tomorow I'm going to try to settle a date with an other cute girl
! Let's see what the future will bring ...
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