so i get some ioi's from this hb5, she's sitting down playing sudoku and keeps lookin up at me giving me the eye. so i finally give her a smile and she smiles back. later on after the person that was sittin next to her leaves i sit next to her. im chit chattin with my friend and his sis. so its 2 stops away frm my turn to get off and i open by askin her how to play the game sudoku. so we chat about it for a min and it goes silent, she reinitiates the convo talkin more about the game but i just didnt know how to transition into a seduction phase or even transition to any other topic in order to get a close.. so i guess ive reached another sticking point in my game.. any suggestions? pointers?

Change the subject to something funny, like another opener or story. You have a natural time contraint, being on the subway, you can really do anything.

Or just ask her where she's from and basis stuff like that, get her talking about herself (which women love to do). Then afterwards number close, considering she's probably on the subway for a reason and can't leave with you.

YEP.



if you're that stuck... look around you and talk about what you see...

"so where ya headed" that coulda opened up who knows how many threads
"where ya coming from?" ditto.....

that coulda covered you til the stop/number close

clothes, how hot it is, what youre both wearing, getting a hair cut, whatever you'd talk to your buddy about if they were sitting next to you... anythin can work in this situation... cuz generally its funner to talk to someone else on a subway, plane, bus stop, taxi, in line somewhere than it is to stand there like a sheeple......



if someone doesnt want to talk at all.. they will let you know physically.. then verbally if need be.. and then you just stop talking to them..

Its just a barrier to cross. At some point you're stuck and you don't know what so say. You're just thinking inside your head: "what should I say now".

Not a very good/pleasant situation. But basiccaly its alway's better to just say something ANYTHING. Because you have nothing to loose, only things to learn.

For example: "OMG I can't believe. I don't know what to say anymore. Do you alway's have this kind of bad ass influence on people?"

Better then nothing.

"Do you think its going to rain today?" would have been better to. She gave you IOI's: Looking at you, smiling. You started conversation. She even reinitiated it.

This was a defenite number close.

thanks for the input guys..will def apply it to the next sarge...i agree with it bein a number close but im workin on my stickin point of transitionin and prolonging the convo..ive been gettin better at it so we c nxt time i guess i be too busy worried and thinkin about what im gonna say so i dont come off as weird or creepy