This is pretty embarrassing but it's something I need to confront and get some help for.

I lost my virginity a little later than most of my friends (17) and although I have experience, I can still count the number of blowjobs and times I've had sex on my hands (I'm 20 now). I've had success with girls but anytime I was with them never pushed to get BJs or sex so I think that's why my experience is so limited.

When I first got BJs I'd only last 2-5 minutes. When I was with a girl I was able to last between 5-10mins a few times, haven't gotten a full BJ (gotten sucked off for a little bit) in a while though, so I couldn't give you any recent numbers.

Sex wise, the first few times I had sex I only lasted between less than 1 minute and up to 5 minutes. One of my ONS last year I was able to go for between 5-10 mins. My other ONS last year and my most recent from this weekend it was less than a minute. Now those 2 were definitely tight but still... When this happens during sex (not BJs), it almost feels like I don't have an orgasm, I just ejaculate, if that makes any sense. This most recent one, I was not thinking about cumming early or anything. I was feeling confident and ready to fuck her.

This is extremely embarrassing for me and definitely makes me feel apprehensive about trying to fuck girls. I took some online quiz and it said I have level 1 PE which is easily fixed.

Guys help me out here, what do I do? I'm turning 21, I should be able to fuck girls whenever I want and give them a good ride. If some of you have had issues like this, I hope you'll tell me about your experience and how you got over this! Any experts please chime in!

Thanks

Well, if it's been some time between girls, it's normal for it to happen sooner. Do you masturbate often? You should. When in doubt, talk to your physician during a routine checkup, they'll tell you if there is something that is medically wrong with you.

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Great advise Freezeiztactical.

Jerking off is 1 of the best remedies.

Some guys even masturbate just before meeting up with a chicc.

The more recent(or often)you ejaculate,the longer you'd last next time.

Plus it's anticipation.

If you're gonna lay a girl for the 1st.time,anxiety will flow-especially if it's a girl you think is out of your league!!

It happens to all of us.

I dont come quicc when sexing my GF.

But if it's an ONS,or girl I fount very attractive...Shit,Im lasting 2 minutes if I dont pace myself(lol).

I dont view it as embarrassement.

So change your inner game.

I tell girls that if a guy cums fast,it means that the vajayjay is good.

So the girls dont feel awkward nor diss me.

They feel secure that I came fast(lol).

It's mental also.

While doing a girl doggy-style,Im more prone to cum sooner if I watch her ass,hold her ass or brag to myself["Damn,she has a fine ass...]".

But if Im thinking about eating a pizza,my hands at my side(or not or her ass),I'll last way longer.

Plus it all comes down to pacing.

If you're fucking a girl non-stop like a mad rabbit in the same position,you wont last!

But if you vary the pace-slow,fast for 10 sec.,then slowly,switch positions like 4 times,you'll last 3 times longer.

Or just plain and simply stop!!!

While fucing her,stop(pull out)and go foreplay,suck her tits for 2 minutes,then go again for 5 min.(pacing),then pull out again and kiss her up...

Simple.

I manipulate this all the time.

Without all those breaks I do,I'd last 2 minutes tops.

But I last like 50 minutes becaue of pauses,switches(positions),added forplay,me eating her for 10 min.,etc.

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