Hi Guys,

I'm fairly new to the whole PUA-stuff, although I'm willing to learn...

I've a problem that I'm hoping someone could give me some guidance on...

I go to Starbucks everyday at lunch with a colleague. Lately, there has been this drop dead gorgeous girl who works there - I'm desperate to ask her out.

One problem - well, one of many: I freeze up.

I managed to gain rapport with her once, although I can't seem to regain it - I'm very self conscious of talking to her, knowing others are queuing behind me..

I seem to be able to talk to less attractive women, but the one I like - I can hardly string a sentence together. Is there a frame or NLP exercise that could help me shift this way in thinking?

Secondly, I thought of saying (but I haven’t) when she asked "Anything else?" - "Yeah, your number" - at first I thought it was a good response, although thinking about it - I'm not too sure. Any opinions about this?

What would be a good response - and how do you run game when in a queue with someone who's serving you?

Help.

if the coffee girl asks you

"what can i get u today?"

reply = "o i dont know - i was thinking dinner at ____.
(Laugh when she reacts) but before she has the chance to speak...
say = "Nah I'm just kidding, you will have to do better than a dinner date to impress me. Dinner dates are boring."

works everytime.

i like a variation of this when i get my hair cut at MasterCuts.
"What can i do for you today?" or "what are we doing today?"
your reply = "Your asking me on a date and i dont even know ur name?" (make sure no name tag) "I'm not that easy, i have to get to know you first." (smirk*)
or you can use the exact same reply u would use on coffee girl.

try em out
ACE

like it but I seem to get the standard English customer support "Can I help?"