So a problem of mine is I'll talk to a girl and feel like the conversation is going well and based on several variables I won't end up getting her number. Then I'll see the girl again constantly but after we've already established a relationship its weird to ask them for their number...but I've found a new way that is an answer to both problems

girl you just met

hey do you know any good____(places to eat, places to go out etc.) and then you could immediately say after that "i always like to try something new"...that sounds good, are you from around here?...oh really, how long have you lived here?...cool (pause, because it gives her the chance to ask her where your from or anything else about you which is an IOI, then respond with) Im ganna get going, but you seem like a fun person to hang out with, we should get together sometime…whats the best way to get in contact with you

girl you already know

hey do you know any good____(places to eat, places to go out etc.) and then you could immediately say after that "i always like to try something new"...that sounds good, howd you find out about that place...oh really, cool (pause) I think im ganna have to take down your number in case i need any other suggestions (acts as if your taking down her number for other reasons than your interested in her)

comments and opinions are appreciated!

If it's "too weird" to ask for her number the second, third, etc times you see her, then you are slowly friend-zoning yourself.

If you want her number, ask.

Or better yet, ask her on the date first.

"hey so I've found this great sushi place (or whatever), what do you say you can me go this friday?"

If she says yes, then obviously "ok well gimme your number. I'll call you when I'm there, let's say around 8"

etc, etc etc.

don't ask for her number. just say

"hey you seem like your cool, we should hang out sometime. Here is my phone, put your last name too"

she'll do it, if not then its her loss completely.

^Excellent post. Thank you.

Notice how he is gaining compliance without asking a question. Very good.

I don't like asking for the number, either.

Use something like:

"Listen, [name of girl], I gotta head out, but you seem like a really cool girl. I wanna talk to you when I'm free. Give me your number and I'll give you mine."

She'll probably say something like, "Yeah, okay."

After that, just give her a kiss on the cheek and a hug, if possible. "Catch you later" and leave.

Effective, simple number close. Tell me what you think.

i find it easty enough to ask for the number once you have shown value, and she is responding in adequate manner. Then really it dnt matter what you say,
even if you just take ur phone out and say, 'wats ur number, ill give you a buzz or something, and we catch up'...

if i feel that i havent shown enough value and havent captured her attention, and she is just there almost like a pass-by-er, standing and talking to you, but no excitement or interest in you, then i dnt even bother asking the sheep for her number.

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It's a deja vu...

i use a technique i've developed called " best facebook friend"

after having a fun conversation i'd say:

"you're cool, you can be one of my facebook friends what's ur name on facebook?"

( if u have a smart phone, add her on the spot ) if not which i don't know why you dont,:) you can use a pen and paper and just in the middle of her writing ask her

"and put down ur mobile number there too"

works amazing!

try it and let me know bro!

I'm new to the forum and this is my first post.

Something I tried today and worked was simple. Something along the lines of what some others have said. She was getting up to leave and I simply handed her my phone and said "It was nice talking to you, lets exchange numbers. We can have another nice conversation." Maybe not the best, but I got her number. Some of you seasoned vets out there, maybe critique that approach for me.

J