I originally wrote this to the author of the How to get back you ex e-book. (http://www.mediafire.com/?ppg6fdftz5gyfk7). But i thought i would get more help on this forum .

Hi Georg! Sorry my english, i’m from norway(if that’s a good excuse?). Okay, i was just wondering if you could help me a bit here, im going to write about my problem with my girl.

Our problems started when she asked if we could take a break(15., she said she was starting to loose her feelings for me, this night i was really sad, and i got a tips about your book (How to get her back for good). And only wanted to get back with her, so i didnt pay so much attention to the 30 first sites in the book. I decided to just let her take contact, she did after a week. She told me that she had tought of me every day. I did hold back my excitement, and tried to act casual and cool. Sooner that week, we hang out and i told her that if our relationship is going to workout, we have to be honest with each other, you have to be more open to me. She agreed. But after this break i didnt really trust her, i was scared of when she was going to drop the bomb. She did(19.9) and i kinda had it coming. Because the night before we had a fight at a party and i topped it all by yelling “get the hell away from me, just go” to her. The next day i hang out with some friends of mine, and they told me that if you were going to save the relationship i had to tell her that i was really sorry, that i love her, and i’m never going to do it again and so on.

I didnt know what to do, so figured out that, this was the best solution. I sent her a message, and asked if we could have a talk. She came to me at 19:00. I told her from my heart that i was sorry. Then she said that she didnt think it would work out anymore. She started to cry, i started to cry first when i saw her cry and hugged her. I didnt beg her to stay with me or anything. She said such things that, she lost the spark, and she only wanted me as a friend. I told her that i didnt want her as a friend. She said that it was best i she left, i noded to her. And i walked her outside my house. We hugged eachother a long time, and both she and i, cried several times. She also said that she really loves me, and if it is any problems i could just call her.
I thought for my self, to end the relationship as i started it, and that was to give her a “dry” kiss(when the lips arent wet). I kissed her fast, pulled my head away, she hugged me, and gave me a kiss at the cheek.
I let go off her and turned away and opened the door.

Later she sent me a long message and i answered pretty cold.
Her bestfriend told me that she had comed crying and sobing to her.
I started to read you book again that night, and i thought about which strategy to use to get her back, because i really want her back! But i dont think i fit in with any of the strategies, the nearest must be Limited Contact.
But i dont know how to act around her on school.
Here are some of my conscerns:
-We go to the same school, but we dont have any of the same clases.
-We have to take the same bus on the morning and the evenings.
-She doesnt have a lot of friends so she is hanging out with some of my girlfriends.
-We’re relativley young.
How should i act at school, ignore her, smile at her, be nice to her?
I could really need some help at this one man!
What is the best thing to do in this situation?

You got to like this ain't no thang to you. Approach with the attitude that you're young and there are hunnies everywhere so this is an opportunity for you to explore. Check it out, if you want her back, when you see her around at school just smile and be like I hope you're happy and doing well. The more you act like this doesn't bother you by not initiating contact or acting all emo and wussy the more likely it is she will come back.

Don't chase her or pursue her whatsoever; move on. She will see that get all self conscious and come back to you seeking approval the. You will have the power back and can make her yours again.

Keep this in the back of you mind: "hunnies play me close like butter play toast"

i break up today with my bf ( alpha_man ) because i though that he will fight for me..because i was soo tired to tell me that are many perfect girls ( with a perfect body and a perfect skin ) and he need a perfect girl and he wanna a girl wich finished a very good high school and at university is first..he tried to separate from my friends..he promised me that he will change but he nerver did it..in 2 weeks we break up 2 times in every thursday ( donno why that day ). i wanna that he can love me for who i am..but i'am afraid that he will never love me for who i am..in these days he told me that he will do everything for me..but i'm afraid that will be only words..i need demonstrations from him.he came at my place to speak with me,he called me,he txt me..but these are not demostrations..i donno what to do.. now he think that i don't love him because i told him that i don't wanna be again with him.
i told him that i'm inlove with other guy and i'm confused and he told me that he will fight for me and he know how to have me back..i told him that he is suffocating me but wasn't true..i though that if i will tell him al this stuff he will stay with me..but he run..

I got back my gf following the rule of "no contact", she called me exacly in the day that we broke-up. If she comes back after using "no contact" than she is yours forever( if you do all the things in the relationship right).

So this is another happy ending!

So take my advice as a macro approach to getting your girl back by using her subconscious against her (you are aware of her subconscious, but she isn't, which gives you the upper hand)

You need to make her question whether she is making the right decision by choosing this guy over you, make her question her priority. See what I mean? She needs to be asking herself if she is making the right decision. You do this by exhibiting attractive qualities, making her miss you, making her jealous (I understand in your situation this is hard, but it is essential) and creating sexual tension between the two of you

after you have created self-doubt within her (she should be doubting her decisions, herself, looking for approval) you escalate sexual tension through with basic PUA push-pull kino, like when she was just another HB you gamed. After doing this one of three things should happen

1.) She acts on the sexual tension and cheats on this guy (you now have a fuck-buddy and can begin to reintroduce the idea of relationship very slowly)
2.) She goes head over heals and drops this other guy to have sex with you, and re-initiates the relationship
3.) You fail. At some point you failed to create enough sexual tension, or exhibit enough attractive qualities to make her realize you are better than the other guy. If this happens you can start over or just bail. I recommend the latter

The micro aspect is the methods you use to achieve the aforementioned results.