So sometimes when I open an HB, they just won’t stop talking! Can I use this to my advantage? Does this indicate loneliness or does it just mean that the pick-up is just that much easier?

I mean sometimes I can’t even get a word in, after the opener. I know we write a lot, and often give advice about how to keep the conversation going, but what about when it’s the other way around??

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-Swede

Yeah, I completely know where you're coming from on this one. It DOESN'T mean they're into you, and could simply be a) they already have a bf b) They are relieved to find someone to talk to c) They have already put you in the friend zone. Being a foreign student SPAM I get this a lot just because girls want to practice their English! It makes it much harder, in my opinion, to be the dominant one and direct the conversation the way you want. If I really can't get her demonstrating the IOI's or shut up, I tend to get out asap. Of course, if you can escalate to kissing quickly, then its automatic shut up!! : P

I would interested in seeing some other ways of dealing with this/ideas around the concept?

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“Where we have strong emotions, we're liable to fool ourselves.”
Carl Sagan

derrr... you got it perfect you dummy, she leaves you without a lot of work, a lot of work i have to do with my quiet girl im goin after. ima crack her shell, she'll be a fun girl.

another one credited to mystery. many of u probably so it on the show.

when the girl talks too much. Just say "u talk too much, wanna kiss me?"

if she says no, u say "i didn't say u could, now where was i before u rudely interupted" now u get back to your routine.

if she says yes, or i don't know. then bingo!

i guess u gotta be real good & confident to pull this one off.