My writing/ cocky skills are pretty decent and can definately hold up in most situations but my problem is that unless a girl gives me a decent response, this game can't go anywhere. Which brings up my next issue. I'm from Malaysia and most Malaysian HBs (and some average ones too) are not very articulate from my experience. I may neg them and I get a happy response back from them but the lines that come back barely reach a few words. If I continue writing funny but lenghty words, I may come of as too needy, or DLV. And if I ask her questions about herself I am DLVing myself? This mainly happens to Malaysian chicks who maybe are not very good with their English language? Anyone not have this problem if they message in Mandarin? Needless to say, I can keep being cocky-funny but eventually, they get tired and just ignore me...and it's game over..

I think you're right, if they don't understand fully all the things you are saying you will bore them, intimidate them and be needy i guess after awhile.

Here most of the asian girls I talk to speak english cuz they were either born here or lived here for a long time..

I have def lost girls after the pick up due to the language issue tho if they havent been here long then my jokes go right past them and they just straight up dont respond, as to not look stupid i believe. Cuz if i say something normal like "where are you" or sometimes ill say it in Jap or Chin cuz I know some like "Ni zai nali? " they will respond right away but only w basics "at home.. and you?"


etc....


so its tough, I donno what to tell you... I don't know Mandarin well enough to know how sarcasm would work.. and with the tones im still mastering might be even tougher..

my best suggestion is be LESS cocky and sarcastic and be more confident and direct. if you know they dont speak english well you can offer to help them and they can help you with "whatever"... make your subject something funny but easy like

"...so do you put mustard on instant noodels?"

MSG:
..... cuz..ew... !! anyway you seem fun, this is of course going on the fact that you ...

use some of that pan pan opener or whatever... like ' would be cool to talk and find out more about you like "are you so an so" just make up your own questions.. i throw in "how much of your face is real or painted on" or "are your eyebrows real or they going to wash off in the rain"

then say look forward to hearing from you

oh and