ok so i had this girl i was after...it was all a huge mess, we stopped talking for a month. I think i had oneitis lol so i started working out to appeal to more women, but after that one month of not talking i cracked and sent her a message saying i hoped everything was going good for her......i figured it was the mature thing to do instead of suppressing the emotion. anyways ever since she's been giving me compliments on how i look and continuously texting me....and just pretty much being flirtatious i guess you can say she's the one that comes looking for me now......but homegirl has a bf, it doesnt seem to bother her so it shouldnt bother me, right? she'll accept to go out on lunch dates etc i've been playing with negs for 2 weeks now...and i respond short messages when we talk...should i attack with kino now or keep negging?


ps: oneitis is out the door...fo' sho

do not neg too much... that could be a deal breaker.

instead think of it as push pull. "Wow, That was a great answer!!(pull) too bad obviouly we don't go well together.(push)"



and yeah! create kino!!

Ok,got it. But I am gonna need some serious back up here lol this girl has game....like hardcore. Last night she sent me lovey dovey text and I replied completely ignoring what she said and not complimenting her. This morning she blows a kiss out of the blue, and offers to buy lunch...I laughed at the kiss and denied lunch. Later I sent her a sweet text and she completely plays it "cool" she did the same thing I did her....we ended up making plans to go out...do I try to make a move or is that too soon and just kino the f----- out of the night? Lol

Thanks guys

reward her for IOIs then.............. push.

you should have sent a kiss back, and went with her to lunch, while saying "Wow, Thanks! if you behave, next time is one me.. you'll probably won't behave arn't you "


otherwise.. you are, blowing yourself off..

you can't be unreachable... most of the time she will lose intrest.

at least.. that is what i would do...

Good luck man!!
Mike

update: so she canceled on me....our plans would've sucked really bad so that kinda worked in my favor....anyways im really iffy on this girl....she kinda leads me on but maybe she's just playing game, so i really really dont know how to handle this chick...so i pretty much just neg. but i think she might be coming along....we talk more now etc....and she offers on a daily basis to buy me lunch....im doing the heisman because idk if she's really taking the bait or not...shes got a bf, i dont have a problem snatching a girl btw lol...aaand she constantly wants hugs and calls me 'love'...go figure

Sounds like she is not taking the bait. sounds like you are going to stay strong until someday you are gonna get weaker and weaker and finally you'll confess you ever growing love to her like and AFC. so.. take a step back. it is risky. atleast have another backup girl to fall on. what you are talking about is a very well known territory of my past. you have been warned (but in a nice way )

Good luck.

Mike

Of course, my entire attention is not focused on her...I still game other woment my game plan is go completely cut out the negs and just attack full force with IOIs (but not too extreme)...just the basic flirt, eventually she will crack, if she doesn't ill still have other girls lined up....ill keep ya updated.

Idk if it matters but our plans were at 7 and she canceled because she had to stay late at work which she did (she was there til 630, we work together lol) and she felt sick, at work today she looked....not very appealing so she didn't lie, does that change things a bit? Lol

I say you should`ve already hit that. I think spending all that time texting back and forth is throwing a monkey wrench in your game. seal the deal, man...on another note, the girl is offering to buy you lunch...i think you need to take her up on that offer. maybe even see what else she is willing to buy you.