Well I went out tonight in completely the wrong mood to sarge (family drama) so I decided I was just not in the right frame to sarge nor did I really want to deal with it tonight which revealed to me a strange world.

To all the new PUA's (including myself) DO your RESEARCH and go out and LISTEN to some interactions. I, myself, am new at this but have done alot of research on this site and believe I know pretty well what is SUPPOST to be done but at times I don't perform. Tonight I went out to a bar to have a couple beers to relieve some stress and started listening to conversations of different groups. I can tell you right now that every single one of them was an AFC and none of them, while I was there, closed on any sort of level but their natural game did bring certain aspects of the game. Along with that you can tell when they're losing they're audience, when they've said something wrong and when they failed to keep the conversation lively enough to not get an ackward feeling.

So my advice as a new comer would be to exhaust your resources as much as you can then go to a place you can sarge and "listen" and critique on the performance of people your around. You'll start to pick up on the little things they could have done different to make it a succesful approach.

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~Surreal

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."