Well, she broke up 1 months half ago with me she didnt care if i was live or dead s, but now that she and her friends won a internship on my city and since she doesnt have many friends only girlfriends , she slowly start talking and sending me sms saying we should go for cofee and shit. then one night her girlfriend calls me saying if i was going out and if she could come then she mention my ex was coming too, and i said ok , at first i was thinking she was try to get back to me and was a pretext, that night I talk to her very few, always try to talk to her friend instead.

Days later me and her friend had a cofee and she said that my girlfriend had move on that she didnt feel nothing for me. And ask me if i were ok going out with them(ex and friends) on a long run. Well i feel a bit used by my ex she didnt care for me during one month now that she won a internship on the big scary city she reminds of me. what should i do I still like her, for one point i want to say FU her but i really enjoyed her friends and they give me an opportunity to wide my circle of friends. What should i do?

My advice would be to forget the past and like u said just become friends with her friends which will open up ur circle. The question here is how much of an attachment you had to this girl and will you be able to be friends with her

You should have never reciprocated contact. You're just setting yourself up for hurt & drama.

If she's moved on and you haven't, it's just a pointless situation. Move on yourself, dude.

You shouldn`t call her and meet her never. like the guy up said leave things that happened in the past, forget her and try to meet new friends and maybe new girlfriend will get you over her.

Yeah i know i broke contact from her 30 days, but i though she wanted to come back but guess no!

Excuse me for bringing this up...

So you broke contact for 30 days, and you thought she wanted to get back with you (in a relationship again).. And you guess no?

What does this mean.. Does this mean that if she wanted to get back, you would say "yeah why not", or "yeah i hoped" ??

Cause if you want to get back with her, and she jsut wants to be friends.. Dont befriend her.. She cant have both (refusing a relationship, which is what you want, and befriend you)..

Brimmer we broke up because she was away we had a long distance relantioship she always said to me that she was suffering in that type relantioship so we broke up by phone (which for me complicates srls because we didnt define our relantio face to face the next time i talked to her she was saying she was coming to my town for the internship(yeah ofc i hoped). then she goes to meet me at a disco with her friend and she was hot has hell i thought she did that to impressive me she sended to mix signals which fucked my head.

And didnt speak for about 30 days, i was hoping to come back i srl liked that girl but she had a explanation to give me if i wasnt happy yeah move on. but now im on srl hurt and want payback! She cut contact for 30 days and now she wants to befriend me what the hell with the girls nowadays! this is not normal? is this normal behaviour for a girl?

whatever you do.. dont go for payback.. just forgive her and move on.. if you still have feelings for her, you gotta let her know!

What good will do for me brimmer saying i have feelings for her? i have feelings for her but now i srl piss what the hell with that girl!

Went out last night with a couple of girlfriends, started to exchange messages with my ex friend so they said that they were going out and my ex would also come , but if they could meet me .
Later that night my ex friend asked me where i was and i gave directions, but they couldnt find the place(ty god because i didnt want to be with them since i was closing on a girl). So my ex called me asking where i was and she started saying that a friend of mine who i had big crush on high school was there with her (my ex knew i liked her and even was jealous sometimes with speech like someday you will change me for her bla bla bla) but once again kind dismissed her saying i was going to stay where i was. But later so i wouldnt be rude to them i went to see how the group was, just say a friendly "hello!" So i greet everyone my ex didnt liked too much of the greet and start asking attention immediality giving me kisses and stuff "Hello im here". So I stayed for about 2\3 minutes , ignored her completly only talked to my highschool crush and then went to my girl friends we werent far from them. So 10minutes later my ex appear next to me saying " we are going to take a walk and if wanted to join" I replied " Ty but we are fine here", gotta say her face was shocked she wasnt expecting that kind of response even my friends saw and comment. For my suprise she went back to her friends but they stayed on the same place for half hour. till they decide to leave and went to a club, my ex girlfriend this time pass closes to me without saying nothing but her best friend came to me asking me to go the club with them . I refuse and she left. later my best friend ex start sending me sms saying tht she didnt enter the club it was full and they were going home and asked if I still was at the same place.

Is this normal behaviour? Especially from a girl who wants to be my friends and was the one to broke up with me.

damn you are being a real bitch with her hehehe..

didnt you say you wanted her back? So why are you saying no to all her efforts to get in contact with you again? Dude, yes she maybe said she just wanted to be friends. But sometimes girls dont mean what they say, or they dont know how exactly they feel.. Just go with it man, hang out with her and see where it goes.. you have nothing to loose.. i think you are being to mean to her, and try to get revenge over her.. Which might destroy everything for her....

Her best friend told me she has moved on didnt feel nothing from me. I didnt hear this from her mouth we still hadnt have the talk(she only invited me for cofee proabbly to say to just be friends but we haventtalk) but proabbly is true her best friends always helped me when we had problems always defended me and shit. Her best friend proabbly is the main reason why i started dating her because my girlfriend when meet me though i was a hardcore player and she always defended me.

Well i was not rude to her but i need to be strong on my actions I like her but i dont wanna be her puppy waiting for a bone. In my opinion if i would say yes to all her efforts, she had the assurance if she need it me she would just snap her fingers and i would come. The best feelings now i can give to her is jealous and the sense of lost so she can start missing me.


I srl need help here Im doing this right? Is this normal behaviour of her. Come on PUAs

Stop putting so much emphasis on what she or the friend says, and start paying attention to what they do.

Actions >>> Words.

yup looks like she is saying something (just wants to be friends) but does something else (wants something more)..

Now she might do this consciously or not, you just gotta find out and so does she.

She comes to me yesterday complaning on SPAM (about last night that we hang out she told me that I was too rude to her and she was embarrased in front of my girlgriends and she was sad and confused. first she just warn me "I think you didnt do on purpose but be carefull next time or i wil be really mad and wont forgive, but after i dismissed the situation, she then changed her speech complaning i did on purpose, women go figure. Then she starts making threats saying we maybe shouldnt be friends and the cofee we plan on having together should be cancelled because of my bad behaviour. This girl wants me to go crazy.xD


Ask my girlfriends if i were rude or anything they said i wasnt nice but neutral!Maybe she is not use to it