I'm a high school student so I often encounter the problem of approaching girls who are with their family. Is there any way to separate them? Or maybe a good enough opener to work with the family? I have had MANY IOIs from girls, but been unable to approach them because they were with their mom or dad. Any and all help appreciated
b.

approach her parents with style's great opener

"I could use an adults opinion on this one." [will work for sure because they feel responsible!!!]

"my cousin who's 8, really wants to get her ears pierced and her parents wouldn't let her. Now, she came to me knowing that her parents trust my judgement and asked me to tell them that it is really common for an 8 year old to pierce her ears, and convince her parents about that...
now, I really don't want to go against her parents wishes, but... I like that she can trust me with such things, that she sees me as a confidant and i don't want to ruin our bond so... what do you think i should do?"

doesn't matter what they will say, act as if you heard the most inspiring answer you have ever heard! and start conversing with all of them.

if done confidently it will work.

their daughter is the secondary target. one you open her parents and converse, the daughter will follow

Good luck

Mike.

That's perfect! So after building rapport with the parents i could do something as simple as "can I talk to your daughter for a second."

Thanks a lot mike I'll let you know how it works

b.