I agree. HE obviously left enough impression for her to text him, and not the other way around. I agree with music on how this went down. I wouldn't stand around and let some AMOG dlv me, nor would i get into a pissing contest. I would say, I'll leave you two alone and head to another set, or I would turn my back on her and hit up another set right in front of her. My guess is you going out to other sets caught her attention. I'm quite sure that's what sealed the deal for you. She saw you as somebody that is desired by other people than just herself. She wants to get in on that action. I did that to a girl I brought to the club with me one night. I get drinks and she's talking to some dude, i just nod and keep walking past...lol (she followed too) No sense in saying shit, just act like you are the prize and you got other options.

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Wow, you brought her, and she's talking to some dude?! Nice, you kept walking.

I'm learning too. I'm liking the new perspective compared to how I was seeing it. Thanks Rye Lee. Otherwise, yeah, I'd be stuck in that mindset and would never know any different. It's cool to know a different way to view it.

This reminds me of a different scenario but similar type of advice. You ask HB to buy you a drink (or something similar to that), she says no, you turn your back, talk to another HB and don't even walk away from the first HB. That's hilarious! Cause I'd assume you'd say "pleasure meeting you" to the first HB and walk away, but turning your back and then not walking away, that was the kicker.

Many guys that get into pick-up do so because they have had issues attracting women and a lot of people tend to get bitter and feel like girls are a challenge to conquer and that they aren't the same as us. Some guys get disgusted by the other sex, because after they learn PU, they feel like girls are easily manipulated and pathetic and they just lose respect for them.

The thing is, how do you think women feel about AFCs? They probably go, "Wow, that's just pathetic that I managed to get totally drunk tonight and it was all for free because guys kept buying me drinks". What about the guys that use and abuse them, fuck em and leave em by the wayside? Probably get bitter and think men are an obstacle and a challenge to conquer, maybe?

We're more alike than you think, PU is just a way to learn how to play on even ground and if you are good, then you might have the advantage, but just because you get a girl to go home with you, doesn't mean she didn't want it just as much as you and that they are stupid. Just because a girl got attracted to another guy, doesn't mean she's a bitch, because how often have you gotten hooked by a more attractive girl? Its all perspective.

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Just to let everyone know what happened. I did meet the girl in question, i found out that the guy she chose that night aparantly was too pushy to get her to come back to his at the end of the night. I on the other hand showed her a mint time, and after very tough last minute resistance got an F - close. Unfortunately she doesnt like dogs so i wont be calling her again. Case closed. My take on it is this. Whatever i did right or wrong on the actuall night, it still turned out fine for me and i still got something that this AFC did not get.

Done and dUsted, NEXT!

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Good job shaun!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye