Hi.

I am new to picking up girls, and I need all the help I can get.
I am 24, from denmark, just moved to hawaii to study a master's degree.
A few weeks ago I met a girl, who is also here to study, but only for a semester. She is from germany, attractive, and I texted her a week ago and asked her to meet. We were suppose to meet, but things came up. I have been thinking about her since I met her.
Yesterday, saturday, i met her by coincidence (we obviously have mutual friends) and we started talking. We had fun, we made each other laugh, talked for a while. Our friends were also present.

My question is: how do I make her feel attracted to me ? I think it is difficult to make a girl feel attracted to me. What questions should I ask her instead all the standard ones, like "what are your interests" etc. I asked her these kind of questions, but i want to stand out by asking her about things that makes her think that I am interesting.

I asked her if she wanted to do something thursday night. She wanted to, but she had to check her calendar because she seems really busy. If she says yes to going out thursday night, where should I take her ? I am thinking the beach.

I am an attractive guy, and girls have told me that before, but I found out that looks are not everythings. So I need all the help I can get to improve my game.

Thanks in advance.


Kopo

Is there really no one who has any advice ?

a cool question to ask, that will take the conversation to cool places is:
"what is the one thing you least want your parents to know about you?" (c) savoy (i think)


Good luck.

Mike.

Ok. Thanks. I will try that question. But what does savoy mean ?

Do you have any other advice ? If I do not hear again from this girl, should I call her or just leave her alone ?
There are a lot of hot girls here, and I always fall for a girl who is involved with someone. How can I guard myself against that ?

the whole intention of savoy is to make the question intimate, create a deep connection using this intimacy created.
you can make it into a game. people love games. find a goal for the game. make up rules. and make this game all about asking intimate questions.

when she canceled your meeting it is 90% not by accident. something made her change her mind or when you set the date she didn't really mean for it to actually happen in the first place.

it is very good that you met again and joked around. don't let her know you are IN to her. while she is around meet other girls, flirt.
1. maybe it'll affect her and make her make a move
2. maybe you will meet someone better.

the game becomes much harder if you have 1 specific target.

attraction is all about creating a deeper connection and rapport.
talk to her like only her closest friends would dare... find out about her most buried secrets... create a real bond with her.

do all this while escalating touch(kino) and hopefully you'll get her.

you asked a really broad question.. maybe try reading a pua book... that would really help ya!!!


Mike.

Ok. Thanks for your reply It means a lot.
She did not cancel our date. I have not heard from her yet, but if I do not hear from her again, should I contact her or leave her alone ?

leave her alone...
you have mutual friends.. so you will meet again and probably soon, then, be again the same cool guy.
don't talk about her not contacting you.. just be the best you can be. make her feel a connection between you two, and make her want to call you the next day. try to create an intimate SPAM as soon as you can. talk slowly, keep eye contact and don't be too keen about everything.. be ZEN.

well...
that is what i would do...
maybe someone here will have a different perspective...


Mike.

Listen. Your going to have to tottally bust her balls allright? And by that I mean suprise her. Ahh the element of suprise! Its not that difficult really. For attraction you simply have to find out what shes curious about and make it seem like you have an answer for it. Although you must be careful to not easily give away this answer. She must earn it. And in doing so she gains something valuable in her life. She learns about herself and her world. She feels happier. You are the giver remember that! You are the one whos making her life better! Try to think this way and it will make you more succesful. Remember she is a human being too. She seeks most of the same things you do. So use unselfish thinking and win her over! And use some mystery method for those mutual friends!
Good Luck!
-AIDEN

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aiden k. baker

Ok. Thanks for the advice
But how do I surprise her ? I mean, practically ? Can you give an example of your advice in practice ? It would help a lot

I was suppose to hear from the girl two days ago, and tonight I heard from her. She asked me if I was going to the octoberfest tomorrow night. Also, I might see her at a birthday party on saturday at a beach park, where another target is going to be The other target will also be there tomorrow night for the octoberfest.

I told her I might come tomorrow night. Which event would be best to talk more with her ? The club/bar or the birthday party ? I am thinking the birthday party because there will be less noise.

dude im sorry i just came on here for the frist time in awhile how did it go man?

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aiden k. baker