I have devised a little test in order to identify my sticking point.
I suggest everybody will fill it in order to know where they are going wrong...


BTW!! feel free to add questions that I did not think about so we could all get better


Identify your sticking point:

Rate each question between 1 to 5,
1- Everytime
2- Often
3- Sometimes
4- Seldom
5- Never

• I think looks is my Achilles heel___
• I find it easier to approach after having a couple of drinks___
• I feel I would be better knowing PUing ideas\rules but never will I be great___
• When I go out I usually open just 1 or too sets___
• My first set of the night never hits the target___
• I don’t approach sets that include men___
• I don't approach large sets___
• I have my favorite type of set, and this is the set I'll approach___
• When I see a really beautiful girl, I get too uncomfortable to approach ___
• When I open a set I feel that it sound as if I am reading a script___
• When I open a set I find it hard to get their complete attention___
• When I open a set I get resistance from the guys___
• When I open a set I get resistance from the girls___
• When I open a set I get a resistance specifically from my target___
• When I open a set I am asked if I am taking a survey___
• When I open a set people turn away from me___
• When I open a set I feel as if they know I am using ready-made lines___
• When I open a set I feel they know I am hitting on them___
• When I use an opinion opener, I find it hard to get them answering___
• When I open a set I sometimes get stuck or confused and in a loss for words___
• After I open and get my opinions to my opener I say "well… thanks! It was nice meeting you" and leave___
• After I open I am having a hard time transitioning from the opener___
• After I start a conversation I am not sure what to do next___
• I feel I don't know enough tricks\games\routines___
• After I open, I blast them with questions about themselves___
• After I open, I feel that I am not the one controlling the conversation\interaction___
• When I get a set going I find it hard to do a takeaway and leave___
• After I open I usually get the guys more interested in listening to me then the girls___
• I ran out of DHV routines___
• I ran out of DHV stories___
• After a while talking to them, I get the feeling they want me to leave___
• I get slapped in the face___
• I can never identify which girl is single___
• I don't have a specific target in a set___
• When we talk about deeper matters I do all the talking___
• When we talk about deeper matters she does all the talking___
• I am having a hard time transitioning from entertaining the whole group to speaking just with my target___
• When I create kino I find the girl backing away___
• When I get IOIs I find it hard to restrain myself from going for the prize___
• I never feel it is the right time to go for the number___
• The girl doesn't give me her number___
• She asks for my number but doesn't give me her's___
• When I call, she doesn’t answer___
• When I leave a message I don't get a call back___
• I can't make the kiss close happen___
• I don't go for a kiss close___
• I find it hard to know when to move from one step to another___
• I find that my target's friend is more into me then the target___
• The guys love me, the girls not so much___
• When attraction is not big enough I close in order to have her as a pivot for next times___
• I don't go sarging with pivots___
• I don’t go sarging with a wing___
• I come off as arrogant___
• I come off as an asshole___
• I find it hard to identify opportunities too Push-Pull___
• I pull too much and don’t push enough(pull being "nice")___
• I push too much and don't pull enough___
• I don't know when to neg___
• I don’t know when to stop negging___
• I don't know when to start kino___
• I don't know when to DHV___
• I can't tell if I'm doing good with a set___
• I am not the alpha in a set___
• I don't know when to qualify her___
• I don't know when she is giving me a shit test___
• I fail shit tests___
• I can't set realistic goals for a set___

Good luck.

Mike.