So ive been hitting it off with this HB9, been chatting on the phone and sending the odd txt msg. She tells me she really likes me and that im not like all the other AFC`s.

I arranged to go on a date with her on this friday, this got cancelled due to her ex boyfriend causing problems so she said we`d re arrange for a day in the week, i played it cool and said yea thats fine by me.

Anyway she then txts me sat asking what im up2, i said im off out with the lads, but if i get a better offer i`ll let her know. She asked me out with her in another town with her girlfreinds. I said yes then 30 mins later she cancels saying i cant go becasue her mates want it to be girls only and there`d be no where for me to stay! I said thats strike 2 your on, one more and your out girl. We spoke on the phone and she said she would come around tonight. I tired to call her earlier to see whats happening, no answer and im just going to leave it at that.

Problem now is i said that would be her 3rd strike, so basicaly shes out! I really like this girl but dont want to undo all my hard work and come across as needy. I know if i get a date with this girl im totaly closing her down. Can any one give me any pointers or advice. Really dont want to mess this one up

I love the hard to get act, its good, keep it up, keep joking about it, make her qualify herself to u. Tell her she owes u huge and that its gunna take some serious effort from her to win u back. She will take the bait and then its on. Just keep up wit ur frame, if u show weakness or start chasing her, she will run away.

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ok this girl has game.....she just txt me this moring saying "lol got your own back did we. Guess i kind of deserve that" she has totally ignored that i tried to call???

Was going to go with a come back along the lines of,
well you know where i am, i like a girl who shows initiative....and so on. Im i nagging to much???? any ideas for other come backs????

I honestly wouldnt even make a big deal of it dont focus on the call or bring it up unless it fits into the converstation, just keep rollin along the lines ur on its gunna work for ya. Seems like ur gunna have to plan a night where ur friends and her friends all go out together n just have lots of fun, social proof is huge for a girl whos hot and got game. Her friends like ur friends and it culd be a huge step for u

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If youre not willing to risk, you cannot grow. If you cannot grow, you cannot be your best. If you cannot be your best, you cannot be happy. If you cannot be happy, what else is there?

Maybe get rid of some of the emotion? Might be good for you to stick with it as an excersize to stay detached.

Look at it from a differant angle.

Forget the details, wait for the opportunity.

Good luck!