Help/Edit/Suggest things for following situations
*Btw this is in Highschool, I'm a senior, and for number 1, the target is younger than me.

1. so I'm (you're) in orchestra, (school has started for about a month), there's about 60 or so students in the class. There's an 8 that I want to approach but she seems pretty Fobby. What is your choice of opener to use on this?

I was considering/planning to use "Hey, I just came to sit next to you because I thought you were cute" (after that I expect either everything to positively progress or receive a ton of negs from her BShield) - if she negs idk what to do, if not I can just wing it from there / idk how to disarm shield

2.I've been switched to a class where I only have one friend and due to my shyness I didn't do the obvious thing on the first day and just introduce myself to everyone to make friends. Now it's just awkward that I'm with that one friend and he's pretty much with this clique group of people I don't know but would like to know. What should I do?

3.Would this work?: Instead of using pua material, what if I just used pick up lines as an opener? I mean let's say I said "Did you fall from heaven? cuz i'm blessed by your presence" sure there's an instant BS rising but A. She could enjoy/laugh at that B. before that limited short amount of time, almost immediately after I finish saying the line, I tell her i'm kidding and just introduce myself.

4.Following up from number 3, SINCE this is just high school game, Pick up lines are pretty versatile? They can actually be used more in a fashion or perhaps depending on the pua's style, the use of it can be very effective in circumstances right?

1. functional opener. you belong to the same social circle more or less.. so ask something about the next rehersal or something.. and start a conversation.

i would not do a straight forward approach on a girl that seems fobby. try the functional opener. plus.. saying she's cute makes her decide what she thinks of you at that moment.. if you just start a conversation you can make her attracted to you even if she wasn't at first sight.

2. it is never too late. go meet them. or ask him to introduce you.

3. ofcourse you are kidding... everybody including her will know that. but you are hitting on her. and everybody including her will know that. functional opener...

4. same answer as 3.

do not use a cheesy line...

unless it is gonna be.

"did it hurt when you fell from heave... HEY! what are you doing outside the kitchen! go make me a sandwich!" which at least earns you a laugh... hehehe

still... i wouldn't go for it..

good luck

1.I don't think it can apply, I mean my school orchestra has like no rehersals, and since we play different instruments it's even moreso different. I mean I have gamed on girls that play the same instrumental as me before.

What do you think about an opinion opener?

3. + 4.
Will be field testing this week at school

a functional opener could be anything! i could try and give you some more, but, your are the best to know which question is relevant to ask her. just ask anything!

if not a functional opener, use a spontaneous, like: "the clarinets had a really off day today hu?"
or "where did you get this shirt?! my mom has the exact same one!"


the best spontaneous openers are the ones that occur spontaneously

so.. open you eyes.

now listen, you are part of the same social circle. You don't have to come up with a really good opener to open a conversation.. just open with anything.. you already have things in common.

about the opinion opener, it would definitely work, but you have to have a good reason for asking. it would be weird to walk up to a random person within 60, and ask her specifically something unless you say something like "i wanna see what an oboist will say about this:" (if she's an oboist )

or even "you seem more down to earth then most people here, what do you think about our friend tom.. bla bla bla"

in a club\bar situation you will have to have a very tight routine.. here, it would be much much easier so... just give any reason and start talking.

bump/update

tomorrow for scenario 1, she will be isolated, absolutely no cbs or amogs or any distractions at all