Okay so listen up,
I've been talking and meeting with this girl for the last two weeks.... Things really started to heat up after i took her to a drum 'n bass/dubstep party. It was like the 80 kilometers between us was the only thing that stood between her and me and some serious bedbusiness.

Anyhoo, she invited me to this other party. It was like a techno party and she's really into techno. But due to transport issues we decided to go to another party nearby so we could stay as late as we wanted. So i was at my work when she called me to say she just been offered an option to ride along with some other people to the techno party she preferred to go to.
So she calls me:
Her: Yeah i wanted to call to discuss this.
Me: The fact that you are calling me right now practically decides your gonna go, so...
Her: Yeah but i feel really guilty 'n stuff...
Me: I'll charter some friends, i'll entertain myself.

Well after that i completely ignored her and she sended me a couple of texts with stuff like: I apoligize 30k times for letting you down. It wasn't that much fun without you.

So I'm practically in the Alpha position here right?
How do i get passed this point, cuz i know it's a good and powerfull position to be in? But i tend to always fuck things up at this point.

Dude don't think about the situation so much! You only mess it up cause you let it mess you up... Learn from the mistakes you have made in the past do the oppossite of what your mistakes were. Just carry on talking to her casually, look past the fact of her apologising to you as though it wasn't such a big thing but if she apologises in person or on the phone then just say "its cool" and move on with the conversation...

She sounds like she is high maintenance.

i wouldn't consider you "getting screwed over big time".

don't get stuck on one woman. have many and/or friends you can also go hang out with. you are coming off needy imo.

if i was you and she canceled, i would have said, ok cool i'll see you later this week.

also, when you have many woman, you don't value a particular one as often so get more.

What's getting you stuck is the ego you are developing about this whole situation, seeing yourself in the "alpha position" makes you sound like a huge dick. Personally i wouldn't try use this to hold one over on the girl.

Just forget about it and ACT LIKE YOU DON'T CARE, let me ask you would you care if you had 10 other girls waiting for you NO.

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