Heya guys,

like with most games there's ups and downs when you're playing. I probably wouldn't have discovered this site if the game was going well for me at the moment. I've had a rough patch in life that advanced my career but froze my social life. It's time now to switch my attention to this neglected side of me.

So I'm in this for a few reasons. First of all there's self-improvement, I've always been interested in NLP, self-consciousness and the like so I'm looking forward to getting back into this again. Second there's the improving my social circle, I feel I got out of touch a bit with many people and need to meet new friends or get old friends back into my life.

And of course there's women. In college I was the nice guy, then I was in a long term relationship and before I knew it, I was 26 and only slept with 5 women. If only I would have changed my believe system earlier! Last years I slowly tried to make up for lost time getting the counter up to 13 by the time I turned 30. I was making good progress considering where I came from but then it all stopped. New fulltime job combined with full time education equals me being tired, unmotivated and loosing the confidence I had been building with women.

So here I am, 31, single, settled in my career (finally!) and ready to go!

As for progress in the two weeks I've been here. I number closed one girl that came over to my place today. She could only stay for an hour so it was more of a "get her comfortable to come back to my place". I won't analyse it here but it was lacking kino, had a good vibe and good eye contact but didn't kiss. She'll be back soon though, she told me she'ld come and cook for me.

As for approaches. I tried daygame but couldn't bring myself to stop someone dead in her tracks and just talk. This doesn't mean I give up on this, I'll be heading back onto the streets tomorrow (getting signed up at the gym again in the meanwhile). I've also tried to approach more during nightgame. Yesterday I went over to five people and initiated conversation, two were high value guys, two got scared off by my wingman (he's so bad when talking to women it's plain embarrasing) and the last I ejected out of the conversation without any other reason then not being comfortable with myself.

Sorry for the long post but it felt good for myself to write down where I stand and where I want to be going. Be always on the move, it looks dynamic!

Hey dude, read your post.
Ever wanna come game down in brighton.
Send us a message. Keep it up
J.c

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Don't focus too much on getting with her, just focus on getting to THE NEXT STEP."

Hey dude, read your post.
Ever wanna come game down in brighton.
Send us a message. Keep it up
J.c

_________________
Don't focus too much on getting with her, just focus on getting to THE NEXT STEP."

Im very much in a similar place to yourself with everything and my wingman is terrible as well, even though i've told him he needs to read more materials and work on his game he thinks he hasnt got an issue. Such a shame as well as he his a great guy probably similar to your friend. Anyway keep going and if you pick up any good techniques you know where to post.