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PostPosted: Fri Sep 17, 2010 12:45 pm 
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Alright, so I opened this girl (maybe an HB8) on OKC with PanPan's opener. Worked like a charm. Changed some things (for example, I think the road trip question is kinda lame, I prefer "Deserted island, what three items"), but it's 95% the same. (God that works well.)

So she emailed me back and I replied like an AFC. No reply for 36 hours. So I decided I'd prod her a little. So I sent this:
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That's a cold, cold shoulder

So that's pretty mean to just ignore a guy. It almost hurts my feelings. ;)

Have fun.
Ben
Her reply (which means to me that I either pushed her buttons or she's interested, IMO) was:
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That's a harsh, harsh assumption. I wasn't ignoring you, I was busy - but I can't prove it, so you can choose to believe me, or choose not to. That's up to you.
So I let that sit for about 12 hours and replied this morning with:
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It is a harsh assumption, but you know what? I wasn't going to sit back and just walk away. Where does that get a guy? Nowhere, and nowhere isn't a place I'm interested in being.

If you're interested in a guy that just walks away, then fine, who am I to say you're wrong? But if you're interested in a guy who knows what he wants and is willing to take a chance to get it, well, here I am.
Now, the way I figure it in my totally inexperienced mind my second reply (the one right above) I'm attempting to give a little bit of a DHV in that I'm not the kind of guy that just is going to roll over and ignore her. But at the same time I'm negging her (at least I think I am) in saying that she might just want that passive guy who's an AFC.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 17, 2010 2:10 pm 
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Well, what were the first two things sent after PanPan's opener? (her reply and then your original one).

Yeah, the ignore a guy thing is a little AFC but...it doesn't seem awful to me. I might have changed it to "If I was any other guy, it would have hurt my feelings."

"harsh assumption" She threw up a hoop for you...and then you went and said..yeah it is a "harsh assumption." You're starting to use her frame rather than yours. A better reply would to have been to completely ignore that all together, and ask her something totally different. If you have rapport...then you can bring up whatever you want. A full out DHV story is a little early for my taste (I like to banter a little more).

PanPan's opener is great, but it only gets you in one or two messages. I think now you should run Kata124's (perfect-internet-game-woah-vt39020.html) divorce routine. I've never had a girl ignore it.

Just edit it to your own words and to the girl. "We had a great run but I think we're going to have to get a divorce..." and then continue on with the routine.


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You're right, I should have posted the other two interactions. So here they are. After PanPan's opener her reply was (She's a LARPer, google it if you don't know, I headlined my opener with "Woman with a sword? Sign me up!"):
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A woman with daggers, actually... I'm not as good with a sword. Hopefully learning to fence will help with that, but until then, daggers it is!

If it helps, I don't think I'm a basket case (though, really, how can one know that about oneself?). Nobody's fallen asleep next to me yet, but there's no accounting for narcolepsy. And, seriously, I am a girl -- have been since the day I was born.

As for your other question....

1. My glasses.
2. A very good book to read -- right now I'm thinking "Love in the Time of Cholera". It's not my favorite book, but I read it every January and I haven't gotten tired of it yet, so it has obvious re-read appeal.
3. My set of boffer daggers. Firstly for entertainment, secondly because it's at least SOME form of exercise, and thirdly because I can easily strip them down should I need duct tape or PVC pipe.

Now then, I hope you thought of your own answers to that question, because I want them!
I gave her a hoop, and she jumped through it. Now she gives me a hoop and, now that I look at it, I went ahead and started jumping. My reply:
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Daggers are good too, as long as there's no backstabbing going on.

Have I thought about an answer to that question? Ha! I've spent entire evenings over a few beers discussing this question. Also, the way it usually works, glasses wouldn't count because I would assume you're wearing them when you're shipwrecked (also wearing glasses in this game is good. One can start a fire with the lenses). So here's my list:

1. A good axe. Can be used as a hammer, an axe, and a knife if necessary. It can also be used as a defensive weapon or to hunt with.

2. A set of Foxfire books. If you haven't read them, they are 8 books compiled in the 1970s by a high school teacher in the Ozark mountains. He interviewed the oldest people he could find about their way of life. Some were almost 100 years old and probably 100 years behind modern technology. The books can teach you anything, from bee keeping to keeping livestock to cooking a meal over an open fire. They are also very entertaining.

3. A coil of good, stout rope. Rope is good for lots of things.

Do you do Ren Faires? I can't think of a better weekend activity during the fall than dressing up in period cloths, going to a Faire, talking funny and eating turkey legs. Last time I went to King Richards I went with a group of nine other people. It was ridiculously fun. My mom's a seamstress and, due to Halloween and theater productions I've been in, I've got several costumes to choose from. If I recall correctly, there's a faire coming up in Hebron shortly.

Talk to you soon!
Ben
I'll give the divorce routine next. I've got an assload to learn.

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She answered VERY thoroughly on your opener, she was definitely intrigued. Here's the thing...if she is a LARPer, even is she's a hot one...she's probably going to be a little different than an HB9 that is a model, so you might avoid too much negging and keep to comfort building. As soon as you find a moment where she's really enjoying your online banter (smiley faces, LOL, HAH, exclamation points)...go in for the phone number. "Hey, it's great talking to you but I've got to head to *somewhere DHV..club cause you're taking your friends out, visit family, help sister, whatever...but making it something that you MIGHT actually be likely to do...don't get caught in a different persona, and be sure to keep it within this girls comfort zone too* send me your number and we can text for a bit to keep it going"
Don't use exactly that line, say it how you'd say it in real life.

As for what you already said to her...doesn't really matter...most of us will send a DLV story and jump through hoops occasionally, just don't do it too often. An occasional hoop jump builds comfort with her as long as she still has interest/attraction.

Tell her a big DHV story that she might enjoy and put in some of the key points (leader of men, protector of loved ones, pre-selected/you have options...). BUT...poke fun at yourself a little bit inside of it (without DLVing) so that it doesn't sound like bragging.


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