Ah, I have read that in the game. Didnt really think it would be as effective as people make it out to be. After pictures have been taken, then what?

Salut!

This was not in "The Game", there was another photo gambit.

After that? "Thanks, where are you from?"

Really, do not overcomplicate the pickup itself, I like some routines like classic Cube or telling her when she's lying by observing her eyes but I treat them as the silence breaking things. I am closer to myself, to who I am by saying things that I have on my mind in this exact moment. Social interaction is so dynamic that you will never draw a diagram step-by-step how to get laid. The reason for an opener is to just start conversation and I usually use simple "Hey, how is it going?" or, when near dancefloor I simply grab the girl's hand and go strait to dance - I prefer that one since I am a good dancer, if I can get her to the dancefloor I usually end up on the couch having fun with her and #/k-closing. Natural game, much fun, taking her words and refraiming them like she wants to have sex with you or that she is nasty - this is where I can feel myself. Routines are used in my game only in the silent moments while on couch.

Salut!
Surielx.

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Have you heard of the theory - Say Less, Do more. Do you believe that it works? By being silent... it actually works.

I think you need to either attract with looks or with your chat. The only way staying silent would work is if they were already physically attracted to you. Unless it was as part of your chat - My opinion only. You want an interesting fun convo with them or just plain physical attraction.

On a side note, I ALWAYS use opinion routines. Do you think these have the same efffect when sarging alone?

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It's all the same, wether you use opinion openers or just say hi and talk for a bit. It doesn't matter wether you're alone or not.

When staying silent, you might freak out the girl because of all the tention. It's weird if you come up to a girl and say nothing. Howeverm if you want it to be fun for the girl and without saying too much you can attract her you have to maintain eye comtact, smile a little and say "hi", then grabe her hand and just walk to the side with her. Go on from there by yourself.

That way you're creating tention and a fun expirience she hasn't had before, combine that with amazing body language and she's all yours.

-Kem

You guys have got to admit, though, that there's a lot less drive when you're sarging alone. When you can brag about your exploits to your mates/wingmen the next day, it's a lot more fun than going after girls just for your own gratification.

Overall though, I think if you get into the habit of sarging alone you'll achieve much more in self confidence and destroying any approach anxiety. Not to mention you'll probably be more bored and go after more girls which = greater success rate.

I'm in the same boat as the OPer, and I'm kinda hesitant about sarging alone. I arrived at a new city a couple weeks ago for college and I don't know anyone in this area.

The thing is, and don't take this in a racist way, I'm in an area that is predominantly white .. like 99%, lol. I'm not caucasian so when I went to the club/bar district last weekend, I chickened out. I mean, if I was with my 'crew' or even a buddy, no doubt I would go sarging, but being alone, I feel left out and vulnerable, and don't feel like I can really game anything. Any of you guys experience this?

I really wanna check out the clubs/bars tonight, but I'm still debating whether I should go solo .. motivate me fellow gamers!!

Why is at that guys go straight to lying. Honesty works 10x better and is 10x more attractive.

If she says "why are you out alone?"
Be honest : It looked like a good night to meet some new people.

Simple.

Surely that is still going to translate to a lot of people as "I have no friends, or atleast none that wanted to come out with me tonight" Not exactly DHV?

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That's only going to happen with a negative outlook like yours.

Be positive about things, it'll be attractive. If you assume all girls are attracted to you, it works a lot better than if you assume all girls find you repulsive. BE POSITIVE!

-Kem

Unless you live in a really small town you can do this anytime you want. Plus IMO you should really be yourself, not someone else. The someone else is going to vanish when you get back to your town. The best you will always be around.
You are on your own because you're trying to pull a hot girl. There are tons of reasons to go to a bar by yourself. My coach usually always goes out by himself, and when he talks to girls he's very direct, unapologetic and to the point.

Consider the reason why you're out there. If it's to be sociable then that's great. You are there to meet new people. You should always be trying to meet new people, and if she asks why you're alone, there's a million reasons you could give. My friends were all busy but I still wanted to go out, etc.

Thinking too hard of excuses to give girls as to why you're there by yourself is gonna get in your way. Just talk to them. Don't prepare for something that hasn't happened yet (the "Why are you alone?" question). Don't assume anything, deal with what ACTUALLY happens. This used to be one of my sticking points and in some cases it still happens.
Your attitude and inner game will make or break it. If you come off as an untouchable non-reactive super sociable guy who's awesome. THE GIRL WILL NOT THINK YOU'RE A LOSER. However, if you think going out alone will make girls think you're a loser, then that's what they will think.

jazz25 has it right.

For one thing, they don't need to know that you're there alone. If it's a busy club they probably wouldn't notice. If they ask about your friends you could say you're waiting for them, they left early but you liked the party or they're in the club next door or whatever..

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