Ok kind of off-topic here, but what is the social status given to a stripper that does not go all naked?

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Depends how you feel about it bro! I could not handle my gf being a stripper but thats probably cos my inner game is not as tight as it should be.

Tough situation! i know she needs money but damn doesnt she respect how you feel about it ? and look for financial aid and other jobs, might not pay as much but still better than stripping!

Good luck!

Honestly, now that she's been doing it for about two weeks, it isn't bothering me much. I am secure enough in my inner game to not get jealous. In fact, I went to her club to watch her, and I didn't get a single pang of jealousy. If anything, she got jealous from me chatting up another stripper for half an hour hahaha.

If anything, surprisingly enough, the fact that it doesn't phase me has had her attracted to me even more the past few days. I've been in less contact with her and she's been taking alot of initiative in calling/texting me. In the past I always seemed to be the one getting in touch. The chaser has turned into the chased. If anything, this seems to be benefiting my relationship with her, and she has also mentioned to me she isn't liking it too much - not making as much money as she expected, and the stress/SPAM is getting to her.

I wont lie, emotionally, I have taken a step back. And hell, it seems to be doing wonders. Who knows, I'm just going to go with it.

Regarding the previous input interms of a firm hand/bf/etc, I'm not pussy whipped, but at the same time I don't try to be extremely controlling. She knows very well how I feel, and my distant behavior as a result is causing her to want me more it seems. I am benefiting tremendously from her new found income though. Finally, she started taking me out for once!

I'm going to be keeping my emotions in check, ride it out, and just have fun with it for now.

^^ Fair enough man!

Enjoy

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I shouldn't have given her the benefit of the doubt. I found out she got into cocaine- I broke up with her immediately.

A check off the bucket list, and something I'll never do again. Word of advice - Never date a modern stripper, as I recalled the infamous reputation first hand.

Should've listened to alot of you guys, but alas, false hope is a killer.

I'm at peace with the decision and feel like a large degree of stress/drama has been lifted off my shoulders. Now just for that pang of disappointment to leave. You think you know someone, and they go all cokehead stripper on your ass

Correlation does not equal causation, sir.

Your boy,
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who cares if she had a bit of fun?

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ah yeah man?

was it a one off? or has it become a problem?

to me it just sounds as if this girl is having the time of her life...

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Really guys? A stripper, just "havin' a bit of fun" with cocaine? I think you've made the right decision sir. It's a lifestyle, and it sounds like she is quickly becoming immersed with it. Sucks, but good on you for dealing with it.

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I have fun with strippers an cocaine sometimes

No but seriously, is it a one of /recreational use?

Or something more regular?

How many times have you said to a girl she should "try everything once" ?

Same deal

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Well all I meant is, the way Sektor put it, sounded like it wasn't something she occasionally did for fun before. I assume he meant she "got into" cocaine, as in becoming a semi-regular user. It is a bit of a stereotype, but also pretty common in that line of work, for the girls to get into/become dependent on such drugs.

But havin' a line here and there if one has self control is not that big of a deal IMO. Just sounds like it was beyond that.

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Whether she did it once or is a egualr user is irrelivant. If he as a person and in his values does not agree with it then he is 100% correct in HIS decision to end the relationship.

Its his views and morals on the table at the end of the day not all of yours/ours.

Totally. I 100% agree with you. I wasn't sure if drug use was against his values/morals or not, I was just making a point that she was heading in a bad direction.

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^^ I agree as well dude, if you look back at my previous posts i have been pretty strong on that point

Im just trying to find out from Sektor some more details making sure he hasnt jumped the gun....

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i say you need to get in on the action. you need to discuss what percentage of her profits you will be collecting...if she wants to be a tramp, at least make some money off the broad. make a website, sell her pictures and do the webcam thing...hell, you could even pimp her out to your buddies...i know this sounds outrageous, but lets be honest the relationship isn`t going to last...