hi guys

what do you think about this:
i # closed a HB8 very quikly in an internet cafe she was with a friend and they looked at me, i said hi to them and they both answered and smile. then she was about to leave and i called her, she came and i played a little bit the cocky funny part with her, and she was liking it (i think) so i tell her "write me your number here on my phone" she gave it to me i gave her a kiss on the cheek and then she left.
day after i call her and we arrange to meet on the same evening. then before to leave to meet her she call me back and she says she is tired, but she is sorry about that. so i said her i call you tomorrow. day after she calls me and we arrange again to meet in the afternoon. then i go to the meeting place and she doesn t show, so after a while i try to call her and she doesn t answer... WTF

thanks for any reps

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you shouldn't have called her when she didn't turn up. makes you look desperate..

I say let it go and find another chick...but if you must persist...if you get a hold of her again and set up another date make sure that you tell her she is paying (she has to make up for the flake out)...if she agrees, good. if not, she`s not worth the trouble.

Don't call her again. If she calls you and tries to set up another meeting (has to be her suggestion not hers), say something like "After you flaked on me twice? Seriously?"

Then if she persists, make it clear this is her LAST CHANCE.

Then she basically owes you a hookup, if not then she's not worth your time and it's time to move on.

i agree with everyone here

positives
1. you number closed
2. you called the next day

negatives
1. you called when she didnt show
2. and you set a date on the first phone call

how i would do it
1. tell her she was rude for not introducing me
to her friends, meet them maybe i can get them to stay longer.

2. the call the next day i never talk about anything
to do with setting a meet up i call to chat.

3. if i did set a date
-say its with a group of people
so she feels more comfortable
-make it during the afternoon
or early evening

4. if she didnt show once i wouldnt even bother a second time
tell her she seems like a cool chick but you only wanna be friends
and maybe game her later on.. or better still forget about her if you
see her again be curtious and say hi have a chat but if you really
want just keep her as a friend.

(i dunno how much you like this girl normally i wouldnt bother i already have enough female friends to a point where they get jealous when i ask some to come out with me and dont ask them)

anyways hope that helped good luck

nice! thanks for the useful advises guys, so you recommend not to arrange a date on the first call? i guess is to build comfort and not seem needy.
anyway what about to call a HB, chat with her for a while and then say something like "i'm really enjoying this chat, you seem a very interesting person, listen today i'm going ______ you should come we'll have fun"?

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terencehill

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look dude i would start talking about whatever and then right at the end say something like i gotta go cause im picking up my friend from the train station adn shes scared of the dark so i gotta go but it was really nice talking to you.. we should do it again some time..

say you seem like a cool person you definatly seem like the kinda person i like to hang around..

i personally dont say "you should come" or anything like that cause its telling her what to do i say "you seem like someone that i hang out with"

romA´s RULES OF PHONE GAME

1. dont ever make a date on the first call
(unless it was her suggestion)
2. always use the first call just to chat
(i never make plans with her)
3. mention that she is a cool person and that shes someone yyou normally hang out with.
4. use time restraints ALOT!
5. DONT TEXT MSG!! I REPEAT DO NOT TEXT MSG especially if its the day after ALWAYS CALL (unless she starts texting you)

those are the essentials!

enjoy and good luck

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hey man these seem really good advises, it makes sense to me.
i will try like that.
thanks a lot

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terencehill

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hi guys so i did like this but WTF same result!
pls some advices i'm experiencing some flakes with girls that i number closed last week and that i talked with them a couple of times by phone
so the first calls wese something like:

hi how are you? i'm in x place with my friends/i'm in x place with my students, i'm a kung fu teacher, what are you doing? yes i wanted to know how are you, you seem a cool person i think we can definetly hang out together now i got to go i'll call you one of these days bye

2nd calls

pretty much the same stuff but then i say listen today i have to go to buy some clothes or shoes for me and i have to go to see this hotel that have the swimming pool cause next week i got to go there for few days, you can come if you want! ok so we meet in an hour in place x. ok nice see you later.

and then they don't show to the fuckin date.

in the last (today) then for not give her the idea that she rejected me after a while i wrote the following text:

hey i cannot come, let's meet another time, incredible you cannot immagine what happened to...

and i cut the message (i read this stuff in this forum)

she sent me 2 messages in 5 minutes asking what happened but i didn't answer
i will call her in a couple of days or tomorrow, when she will ask me about that i will say: oh yes this is too cool i got tell you this in person we'll have fun

what do you think guys?

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terencehill

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TRUST YOURSELF
EXPECT THE BEST

the best way to avoid failure is to see it as a feedback