i am having a very hard time making small talk with a woman. How do i make small talk with a woman i just introduced myself too?

You don't need to say anything after introducing yourself. Go silent and let her contribute first to the conversation.

Coffee.

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It's hard to show how witty and interesting you are through small talk alone.

As a general rule, I try as much as possible to completely skip the small talk and immediately get the conversation moving about something interesting (think something you'd talk to a long-time friend about). This could be an observation about where we are, something in the news/pop culture, basically anything I can crack a joke about or use to show her that I'm an "alpha."

That said, sure, if she asks me where I'm from/what I do/ etc, I'll answer the question... though mind you not always truthfully. If she asks what I do, I'm a porn star. Once she laughs at this maybe I'll fit the serious stuff in there, but I do not let the conversation focus on the serious shit.

Keep it playful, keep it interesting, keep it alpha.

-ChiefBX

Why do you want to have a small talk? If it's just for the sake of conversation and you don't want to know her personaly or sexually escalate then say and ask things that do not relate to you or to her.

e.g. "Seen any good movies lately?", "The weather is so good", "The american idol was surprising.."..

Otherwise I'd suggest checking my article on opening and attraction - http://www.puacottage.com/239/which-opener-to-use

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