As the title suggests, my favorite stage of seduction (and I use that word "favorite" loosely, I love it all).

It was my third date with this girl who I met a while back and it went pretty good. Picked her up from her place, grabbed some chow, drove back to my place, told her I'm watching my spending (which is true) so I thought it'd be cool just to hang out and watch movies, we watched a movie, kissed her and there. Alright here's where it gets fun.

As we're watching the movie I gently kiss her a couple times on the neck and she starts breathing heavier - I stop and go back to watching the movie. Few minutes later, repeat until her breathing gets heavier - stop and watch movie again. Credits start to role; begin to repeat for third time.

HB: that's not a good idea mister...
TD: you sure about that? (kiss again)
HB: yeah (straddles me and starts kissing me)

I then put one hand behind her upper back or behind her head, can't remember or alternated or something and one hand on her hip or lower back and use my hands to simultaneously control the speed of the kissing and to get her to start grinding on me. Once she started grinding how I wanted her, I then moved my hand from her hip around behind her ass and rubbed her pussy from behind (they love that because it's so unexpected). As soon as I got her breathing really hard I just grabbed her at the thighs, planted my feet, stood up and carried her to my room, placed her on my bed, kissed her, rubbed her, got up and walked over, closed my bedroom door. Walked back over to her like I was in charge (because I was) and leaned over and kissed her (she was looking up at me expectedly now), grabbed her hand and stood her up, put my hands on her hips, ran them up and pulled her shirt off in one motion.

The next few moments were a blur, but I had pulled her down on top of me, my shirt was off at this point now too, and then I undid her bra, it was one of the three hook ones so I fumbled for just a second (lol), removed bra, pressed her bare chest against me.

Next thing I know I'm on top of her, alternating between kissing her, kissing her neck, and sucking her breast while rubbing her down, and try to then pull her shorts off. LMR.

HB: I can't do this
TD: (doesn't say a damn thing)

I just take one step back and kiss her, kiss her neck, and start rubbing her down again. She responded by unbuttoning my shorts and stroking me through my boxers. I then grab the bottoms of her shorts and start pulling them off again, this time she helps me.

I passed under her leg (so I was lying next to her) and slid my hand in her panties, started fingering, (another peep of "I can't do this") gave her an orgasm. It's my experience that it's always a good idea to give them an orgasm before you even put your dick in them (but who knows, I just may like doing it). She gave me that fiery passionate look I love and pushed me down on the bed and pulled my boxers down and started stroking me.

Next thing I know she's straddled me again and she's grinding her bare self against me and she intermittently presses my wrists down on the bed and controls the grinding speed. I grabbed her and pulled her torso down on top of mine, kissed her neck again, pushed my hips into hers, and whispered in her ear.

I was literally about ten seconds from turning her over, sliding on a condom and having my way with this sweetheart when she said it again.

HB: I can't do this. (this one was different though, different intonation and she wasn't moaning while she said it).

It wasn't totally opposed though I don't think, I'm about 85% sure if I had taken one step back and restarted then in a matter of moments I'd have been having sex with her. However, at the moment, my head wasn't right, I wasn't completely sure I wanted to have sex with her (I'm seeing another girl also) and I decided to let it go and just lie with her and talk some more which was good and atthe very least built more trust and comfort.

All the foreplay lasted at least 45 minutes and I walked around with blue balls from hell the rest of the day (I refuse to jerk in those scenarios).

Today's lessons:
• reading assignment: go through story and see if you can find them yourself.
•frame control
•proper sexual escalation
•never take their first response as their final response; as my favorite guru Ross Jeffries always says
•ah hell, I can't remember everything, I've got a case of insomnia right now, I'm surprised I was thinking coherently enough to even tell this story. Just go through and see what you can find. There's lots of little pearls in there.

Holy hell, this took a long time to write from my phone. Let's see if I can get some freaking sleep now. Peace and piece (RJ does love ambiguities and word play don't he?)

- TD out.

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Send me a brunette,
Send a blonde to me.
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