I've been at this about a month and a half. I can neg well and I'm getting better at handling shit tests. Today I realized the true value in projecting confidence.

I was in the bank getting a withdrawal and the teller is about a 6.8-7. I start to neg her about not knowing proper bank procedure or something and she starts telling me about a credit card rewards program. It's a decent program, so I was about to lean in and be interested, but I DIDN'T. I realized this subcoms needyness, so I stood up straight and let her explain the program. During her explanation, I felt a bolt of attraction start to form. I think this ALONE did more for me during the conversation than anything I said.

She ended by giving me her number.

Afterwards, as I was leaving I realized I had withdrew from the wrong account so I went back in and she said "what did you forget?" As I'm walking back up I realize the two tellers next to her, both girls, hb 8 and 7.5, were smiling at me (girls can gossip quick). I ended by saying I MIGHT check out her program and that her sales pitch was ok. I think it went well. The only problem was I should have engaged the other two girls there.

If any experienced pua's read this, one question I have is:
What is your favorite routine for engaging the friends? I couldn't think of a routine in that moment that would convey disinterest in the other two but still engage both of them

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Respect,

headhancho

I good idea is to neg her a little through them, look at other HB "maybe you should help her, she's taking her sweet time helping me", or "does she always make customers wait like this?"