Hello all from Ireland. I've been lurking about the site for a while just thought its best to now join.

I got a question or two for all you wise folk. I've started a new job, been working a few months now along with some girls. Last week we went out on a work night out. As the night went on I got on great with one of the girls, I was suprised about all the things that happened with this girl as the night went on. She was a lot different than I was used to, maybe thats because we were all drinking?

Anyway here is what happened, over the night she asked me a good few questions about all sorts, she told me about some personal stuff and asked not to mention it to anyone, she said herself and her sister had been talking about me a lot. As we walked to the club she kinda locked arms with her friend (if you know what I mean?) then her friend mentioned something about including me, then I was included, she put her arm inside mine and we all walked up the street.

During the night as we talked she would come up real close, she talked about how this and that guy was bothering her etc. I noticed she showed her palms and kind rubbed her wrists (turned them up to show me while talking). She invited me up to her house to take a look around, this was after we talked about what pets she had etc.

Today in work it was just back to normal, nothing special just talked about work and so on, had a slight convo about the night out. I did notice as we were all standing about to go home I changed my stance, straight after she copied my same stance, might not mean anything?

So do you guys think this is something worth following up, how would you suggest doing it? I was thinking of mentioning the visit to her house to start off?

Many thanks!

She likes you.

Bang her.

yes there was about 4 different things i read in your posting hinting that she possibly likes her. what you should do is ask her out for a few drinks agian but this time dont bring the group and if all goes well agian tell her you want to show her your place

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Thanks, the girl seems to be shy in work, kinda hard to talk to. I was thinking about taking her up on her invite, should I say it to her face to face in work or maybe pop her a message on FB, mention somthing like " its hard to talk about this in work, people listening etc". This girl is my bosses daugther so I got to be careful. Thanks.

well yes i supose that would be best if its hard to get a moment alone to talk with her, and if shes your bosses daughter lol.

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Might just try the FB way then and yea I better be careful.

I don't know... if she's a just being a flirt, and is to all of the guys, then FB might not be the way to go. How many other guys at work are worried about her dad? I'm not saying you should brazenly announce to everyone your intentions, but if at all possible face to face interaction is best in my opinion. Be alpha.

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Shes not the flirty type, shes quiet in work and more or less keeps busy all day. Its hard to get a moment with her. On the night out she really came out of her shell which suprised me. The invitation to her house to come have a look around could of been just drink talk? Not sure what to do to be honest, might just bring it up in person and see where it goes.

Alright, some new advice would be great.

I was talking to the HB today, reminded her about the invitation she gave me. I wont go into the all details, anyway HB said yea call up.

This bit threw me off, HB suggested I should bring along my friends little daughter to take a look around, HB lives on like a farm, they have a few animals etc, great for kids.

Right after I mentioned calling up (within seconds) HB came up with the idea to bring my friends daughter, its almost as if she had already been thinking about it / had it planned. What do you guys think about that?

What should I do, bring my friends daughter with me? or make an excuse to go alone?

This is a hard one, maybe you could come over with the friend's daughter, this way you have been there before and it will be easier/less awkward if you come over a second time later on. On the other hand she might just be rationalising and seeking an excuse for you to come over without stating the obvious. I don't know man, any way, good luck!

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Thanks for taking the time, I dunno. It gets better, just been talking to my friend who has the daughter, turns out he was asked also. We all work in the same place. I guess this is why HB suggested bringing my friends daughter. I might have looked into it too much, HB could just be being nice and no more. The night we went out she was prob just drunk and didnt realise what she was doing.

Anyway I'm going to freeze her out and see what happens, I'm not going to take up the invite, I'll make some excuse. If she wants to show my friends daughter around the place she can organise it with my friend. I aint no middle man.

Thanks for all your help.