Okk So I almost lost my virginity today =l so mad!! This is what happened.

So I met this chick at a local event. She added me on Facebook. We exchanged numbers. Been working her for about a month now. Finally got her to come down today. Btw shes HB8. Really cute. Also she has a boyfriend but their relationship is really rocky right now. Anyways, she came down and we chilled for an hour until things got really sexual. I joked about being a virgin from the beginning. (so I did tell her the truth but she jus thinks i'm joking lol) So heave make outs and stuff. I tried to play like I knew what I was doing, which I think I really did. I teased her a lot. And took really smooth and slow. She loved it.

We both knew what was about to happen. But I didn't Have a condom on me. So i told her to lets go to 7 11 to get smokes (she was still saying no to sex) I went in and got a condom. And we went back to the place. btw we were in the woods lol My parents were home and (im 19) and didn't really wanna pay for motel. And fuckin outside always seemed cool. NOT A GOOD IDEA FOR FIRST. I know lol. So anyways we got back and started smoking and stuff and it got sexual quick again. I started to finger her. Than I got her to blow me. Tounge ring. God feels good lol. So after about five mins of blowing I decided it was time to fuck.

And... I lose my hard on =l fml. Was just abut to lose my virginity and my dick goes limp!! I told her to blow me again. She blew me for good 20 mins. And right after my dick goes limp again. Fuckkkk!! i couldnt keep a hard on. When i was making out with her before it was so hard. And it was fine when she was blowing. But right when I go to fuck her it kept going limp. And I wasn't even nervous or anything! I was showing her like I'm really good at this. But she didnt though. And she still denied I was a virgin which is a great thing for me =) Well anyways I fingered her and sent her ass home because I had to go home. She wanted me to eat but I don't know that seems nasty lol

But yea. I almost won? at least I got a blowjob right? lol Just mad I couldn't stay hard. Anything I can do about that for next time?? When im jerking off its fine lol I can keep it hard for more than 20+ mins but when it came down to sex it was limp! and I tried to keep it hard! fuckk

Damnn Was so close =(

It's all psychological, happens to all of us at some point lol, btw Tongue Ring = Godly

Nice job though, it'll only get easier the more you get used to it.


Good Luck for the future

lol, it`s sad

don`t worry you`ll get the chance to fuck her

yupp we're chilling this thurs =D hopefully this time my penis don't fail on me =l

good luck man. Its just in your head, so can be dealt with.

Why are guys so caught up about going down on girls?

Dude, I've been in the same position as you, three times, and still haven't conquered it. I know that it's all in my head, too. Like you said, your hard when she's blowing, you can get hard on your own, so obviously it's not a mechanical issue. It f*cking sucks I know. Since I haven't conquered it yet, I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you the problem, which is stated in your quote. Next time I'm not gonna think about keeping a hard just think about how f*cking hot she is naked and how horny I am. Hopefully that works and I can stick in in for once. I wish you and I the best of luck. lol

The fact is, you're intimidated/nervous by the experience, and from what I can gather, you're just a little excited about the first time. I've never had this happen, at least not subconciously like you seem to have it.

I've had a hard time actually finishing when the girl is someone that I'm kinda intimidated by but not keeping it hard. Example, I'm 5'7, the girl was 5'11, the whole time I kept thinking "wtf what if I'm not good cuz she's got so much size on me" and that made me all tense, but once I relaxed and let my mind go blank things got better.

Eating em out seems nasty, and to be frank it's not a picnic, but they're willing to put our cocks in their mouths the least we can do is return the favor.

nervs are a bitch arent they ?

dont worry about it man , happens to the best of us. just try to relax and breath deep.

good luck for the future

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I had the same problem. I had eerection before sex but when a wanted to penetretemy girlfriend ti happend again. I tried it more time but allways with the same result. Then I went to see a doctor and he gave mi Cialis (the same as viagra) - 2 tablets. When I used half from one, i couldnt believed it how it worked. So my idvice is go to doctor. After that thinks getting better..
It is only psychological problem.

Sorry for my english..