How would you feel if you know that her friends are a bad influence on your relationship and on her? I couldn't take it anymore I needed a break, not because I didn't loved her but because I had to make her know who is more important, even if I knew that this break-up would be very risky.
And how would you feel if her bad influence and pressure from her friends will make her choose them instead of me? You know that she loves me but her female friend makes her leave me and helps her get in to the arms of another guy(from that groups of friends). You know that she loves me and I love her too, but she is with another guy just to forget me, but it's only making things worse for her, she could never forget me.

She only then realizez that I was totally right, and days were passing by being on our own , she was with that guy, and I was alone hoping that she will realize that she was talking non-sense last time on the phone when she said "those friends are more important than you", and every logic argument I made couldn't convice her at that time. I had to take that healthy distation, even with the cost of losing this realtionship because I had to make her realize what she had lost.

I knew that this would happen, I also knew that I am the best guy for her, but logic couldn't work so I had to let her a little bit of distance, I couldn't do anything better.
How would you feel if you knew that you miss your gf so much and love her so much but and she does that too but if you call her she will tell you that she is doing "very well" in spite of the fact that she can't live without me, but she now is kissing another guy, but she is always thinking of me. This made me realize that life is much more complicated.

The good news are that even if that sucks, she realized that she made mistakes, and dumbed that guy and was running back to me, after 5 days.

I didn't felt jelous about that guy, and that wasn't because of the break-up, because I think that the break-up was only in our minds. I didn't felt jealous because I knew that she loves me and only me, and that isn't cheating, that is just "using this guy just to forget you because you aren't answering my calls because you don't want to fight about past things that doesn't matter"

This makes me even more confident because I now I am better for her than another guy.

I made her realize that she should look for other friends and we got back together!

Thanks Alpha + GF for hijacking thread.

Getting back to the OP, listen to darkone. It very simple, girls are like children, and they need boundaries.

You just tell them very calmly what the boundaries are, then you and her both stick to them. It is also essential that you are strong as a man, if you tell her there is a certain consequence if she breaks a boundary, then you need to stick to that.

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good point I agree with the fact that you should mention it, I mean it definitely is not in the appropriate books, and you should make it known that if she would not like you doing it, then you feel the same way about what she did.

hahahaha!!!!!