I met a girl at college and we got to a good start and eventually we exchanged couple of emails and I think I over did c&f...

Now she hasnt replied to my email for almost 4 days. Thought I'd plan to c&f last time and wish her a good semester and maybe ill see her one day. Bye.

I suppose that she isn't interested since she still hasn't replied but in her emails it sound like she was. Pretty sure she would have checked the email by now.


Any ideas on what to do? I would very much like to get to know her and we go to a small college extension outside the main campus. We also pretty much have the same classes. Friends tell me to dump and move on but I don't feel like it.

Thanks!

PS: We have a study group coming up that we need for class, we agreed on the same date and then now I changed it to another because she didnt email back.

normaly if they take 2+ days to text/e-mail me back i drop a little somthing like this:
1)'hey girl stop playing hard to get, talk to me "wink" '
or
2)'hey just saw a 'drop in somthing relavent' and got me thinking about you, don't be a stranger, talk to me '

when i say 'drop in somthing relavent' i mean somthing that has happened between you and her that will make her laugh for example i knew this girl who thought a blackbird was watching her so i said:
'Hey this black bird was looking at me and it got me thinking about you, how you been?
talk to me girl, dont be a stranger '
if you cant think of anything to drop in then you need to bust her on more things

if 2 days go past and they dont text/e-mail back i move on.

you can use 2) first then 2 days later 1) but you will have to step you game up when meeting up to recover.

hope this helps.

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Thanks for the post I emailed you some more info. Anyways what if I go find her in her class? Is that creepy? Kind of worried that she got into some problems.

She should atleast say she isn't interested instead of making me worry if she is ok or not.

I think I am going to give her the LJBF card later on. I also sent her a follow up letter and I will go search for her next time I have class next to her class. Though I should probably take the hint that she doesn't want anything to do with me lol.

At this point, it's not your place to care about her that much...

Somebody else will take care of her. Send her an email in a week or two with something C&F with the slightest touch of concern. If she comes back with something about "Aww you were worried about me" slam it down hard. "No, I just wanted to collect that coffee that you owe me".

If no response. Don't talk to her anymore. NEXT!

update: she emails 2-3 days after my follow up. getting a new phone and giving number to me...

she used a friendly tone and never answered other email...
-I guess she is trying to use the LJBF card lol.

(Anyone got a clue on how to p/p or c&f this up? -including how to say she could have worried someone to death, but not me cause i know she will come through?)

Sorry bro, sounds like it's a lost cause. I say move on.

Either way, the ball is in her court. She knows you're interested, and if she wants to hang out, she will text/call/email you and suggest that you do so.

If she doesn't contact you, do not contact her first. Move on. There are other bitches in the sea, and focusing for too long on this one girl is doing nothing but hurting your chances with them.

Get out there and game on some other bitches, and I guarantee you will find success, my friend. Sometimes you just got to cut your losses though.