After a long time of not having a GF, the Game has finally paid off for me. I finally got a girl who I really like, but there's a problem. Me and my GF mostly hang out at school, and we get along just fine but things have a way of becoming awkward. It may be me, it may be her, it may be neither or both of us. When we are in a movie or something, it's perfectly fine, but before it starts and after it's over it gets a little awkward.

Any way I can get around this?

Thanks,
Ethan

Awkward cause you dont know what to do, or what to say..

Man, what can i say.. you dont have always something to say..

What can i tell you.. You dont always have to say something clever, you can entetain a girl by just talking, talking about whatever, the content is not always important. Also, if you dont have something to say, then do something? Kiss her, hold her, touch her... Enjoy the silence, silence doesent have to be awkward.. actually i find it to be quite nice when no1 is talking at times, just looking into her eyes and just be silent, then after a while, just go for a kiss and then say something silly.. whatever..

It gets awkward not because you dont talk, you dont do... but because you are just insecure and want to impress ect.. take it cool man =) dont be timid and everything will flow of your mouth

Thank you dear lord for beinging 60YOC into this world!

You see, what he says is that instead of fearing the conversational (or otherwise) tension, you should start enjoying it. How? Don't feel awkward while you have nothing to say, nor should you feel the need to say something. Wait for HER to say something Let HER become concerned with the tension. You should sit back relaxed, smiling at her little slips and misses here and there

The more you try to invest in these awkward situations, the lower goes your status. As you might have observed, even if you do end up coming up with something, it's usually very lame and doesn't carry the conversation forward very well. Instead, let her say something 2 out of 3 times, the third time, you release the tension for a change

Also, if your relationship is a serious one and there is a good level of understanding between the two of us, you'll start to appreciate the moments of silence as well. Just.. snuggle up with her or start caressing her shoulders or arms gently.. build a stronger rapport during such moments. Good Luck.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

You live for (more or less) 20 years in this society ,how can you run out of things to say ?
With your friends do you run out of things to say ? Do you worry and do you post on forum,if it would happen ?
You need a bit of change in your attitude : more relaxed,not inside your head.So work on that.