What would you do at a college frat party?

There isn't much drinking but a lot of dancing and loud music.

Advice?

where are the parties at? house, club, ect?

also, if you smoke, its always a sure way to click with anyone else who smokes

run strong dance game and look on this site for some pointers on that, and also go check out the bar and just jump into groups and join in, its not going to kill you or them if you are confident and interesting

personally i like to arrive at a club or house party and take a quick walk through the house scoping it out on my way to grab a smoke somewhere and typically grab someone on the way to smoke with or find a group already there smoking

draw attention to yourself in a good way, i.e. dancing by yourself while making eye contact or try to break into a beer pong game with a girl as well. these parties are all about showing your just as valuable if not more so than the frat. The girls love those guys because they give them free drinks and a place to party.

so, wear some comfy but intriguing clothes, up your dance game and yeah grab a smoke with some people.

well... wat kinda frat parties are you goin to that dont have alot of drinking?

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Seriously, if you're at a college frat party that doesn't have a lot of alcohol, show up with a bottle of liquor and everyone will FLOCK to you. That means you call the shots (pun intended) and decide who gets to be in your presence. Don't just give out free liquor like a beta though, share it with your friends and when some hottie comes up and asks for some, give her some shit before you let her have any.

Whatever you do though, do NOT pressure them into drinking or in any way come across as trying to get them drunk. That is a no-no.

That's what I was going to ask haha.

What to do at a frat party is a very vague question. I'll assume you are a freshmen or new to the greek life since it's around the beginning of first semester and I know rush is going on around now. Would that be correct? If it is, the first thing you need to do is get cool with the brothers in that frat you think you will rush/pledge or frequent. Since they are all friends, collectively they can make or break your social status there.

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