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UPDATE guys:Ezo's gonna be disappointed(also the other posters & advisers).
1st.ly,I agree Ezo,on her probably getting bitchy that I wasnt there DURING the storm,rather after.
And she is weak in many ways.I'd written past posts about her being weak,and you'd commented on it.
Now Adilinar,I think you're gonna be the only poster pleased with my latest decision.
Update:
I couldnt control the urge anymore so I decided to text her about 2 pm today(after a week of freezing her out).
I said in text,"Do you want the game to continue,or are you ready to change your attitude"?
She never replied(lol).
About 4:30 pm,she passed by my grandma's house[Im staying there while my house's being repaired after the storm].
This' the dialogue:
Me:"So you dont think you should be apologizing"?
Her:"For what?I didnt know that I did anything wrong[in a shocked tone]".
Me:"U treated me like piece a shit that night and I just want to know if you're gonna change and start respecting me,or we'll remain broken up".
Her:"Im sorry and I have changed long ago".
Me:I dont give a shit about long ago.I want to know if you changed from the last incident.
[She refused to answer then instigated an argument].
Her:"I've been home since while you're out having fun meeting pp[claims s.o.told her I was mingling]"l!!
Me:"Wait,so you expected me to stay home & cry"?
She basically managed to flip the script on me to make it seems like I did something wrong!!!
Fellaz,I later ended up apologizing for nothing(although I wasnt at fault).
We hung out up until 10 pm.
The whole while,Im trying to carress her and sex her,but she kept telling me to stop 'cause she's upset at me and wouldnt feel comfort having sex as yet.
Me:"Hello,you're the one who should be comforting me and all over me"!!!
Long story short,we ended up having sex.
I wanted to punish her so bad by sexing her HARD,but since I hadnt had sex in so long,I felt like I was gonna cum in 20 sec.(lol),so I had to take it slow(lol).
Im hoping I taught her a lesson by giving her space for a week.
It's ironic how she's accusing me of cheating during the freeze-out phase.
Well case close guys.
I didnt succeed in the freeze out(I gave in by texting)but I hope it doesnt come bacc to bite me in the ass too soon.
Thank for the advise guys.
I think you played it 50% correct. I wouldn't had apologized for something I didnt. And you see my point where I said that my girlfriend didn't knew she had offended me? Neither did she... You had me, until the point where you said you apologized to her. You did good where you established limits, you established that you were not going to stand by her bitchy attitude, but you went downfall and gave in to her.
The point is that things are OK now. But for the future, try to speak the issue in the moment, and not wait so long before calling. Trust me, girls are very proud, even more than ourselves. If you don't call them, they won't call you, even if they're DYING to. The one that calls you is either a strong independent woman or the complete opposite. Girls want us to call them, and settle things down, they want to settle things down, and they don't like when they're not OK with us. My girlfriend has told me that she doesn't like us getting mad, that in the past she basically gives her phone to someone else as to resist the urge to call me or text me.
Be a man, be mature, don't take things to personal. Maybe she was in a bad day, maybe she wasn't ...You should act cool, and believe in yourself, if you don't, no one else willl.
Good luck!
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