Hey guys,

just wanted to intro my situation, pretty new at this thing. I will keep this pretty short and focus on the key points. Basically, got this girls number (HB8) on the train went on a couple of dates and things were going pretty well. 1st date drinks and talking and hung out a while ( . . . I paid ) @ the end, no good night kiss, but we were also on the train.

Second date, hung out with friends, she was more touchy feely, said we could hang out more and do more stuff after this, good night kiss, no make out. (I paid again . . . )

I call her to hang out again, a week goes by no answer, then drunk txts me saying she was sorry shes been really busy, i didnt even respond to that txt, so she calls me the next day, i call her back . . . ask her to hang out and said shes going to be away. seems very "uninterested" so i left things open ended and said if you "well if you wanna chill again just let me know when you're free"

She txts me 3 weeks later wanting to hang out. I respond and say im busy but ill call her.

So what i want to know:

1. is this chic bored and just wants someone to entertain her?
2. Is she just using me to pay for drinks?
3. Her txts are pretty short is this an indiciatoin shes not interested?
4. How would you experienced guys play it out.

After rereading this i realized its not that shor . . sorry, however I do tend to really disect situations like this. Any advice for a newbie would be apprecaited.

Thanks

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-k24

it seems like you need to take a little more control of the situation.

i would call her and make plans to do something fun and exciting. (not dinner and a movie)

Move on bro. She's bored, and you should be too. She's the only girl you're seeing, and she's catching on to that. When you said, "let me know when you're free," you put the ball in her court. You do not, I repeat, do not want to do this. It's low value and un-alpha. She doesn't want to decide when and where to do things, she just wants to be good company to that super cute guy she met. You decide when and where to do things, not her. Move on. The only way you can save this is if you use NLP on her