u'll see, yesterday i was in my house, it was about 1 pm (i was waking up =SS at the time), so i was all sleepy and my hair was like OMG!! haha really bad
suddenly someone knocked at my door, i opened and saw this really hot girl at the entrance.. she started to say something but i couldn't hear because of my stereo (i use to put my music kind of loud) so it was the perfect pretext to get closer, she was like a 7 i think around 25 years and she was offering me to join some kickboxing classes (which i really didn't want to take) so i told her i would check if someone was interested in my house (i live alone but i mean i felt like i needed some secs to choose which strategy to use), but i couldn't come up with any of them!! so when i went out again, i just looked at her eyes and smile a little bit, her eyes went down and she started laughing but in that moment 1,000 things went through my mind!! and i wasn't sure of whether it would be a good idea or not, here are the things i wanted to do and why i regret of em at the end (well, i thought in all of them in a matter of 10 secs or less while i was looking to her eyes):
1°. First of all i absolutely wanted to flirt with her but i thought "if i tell her a compliment, i will be absolutely the same kind of guy that she has seen all day" (i mean, with a girl like that, any guy who opens the door would have told her the same things.. "what a pretty girl, what a sexy girl, what a hot girl, beautiful eyes, beautiful smile etc"), so i thought it was not the smartest thing to say
2° if i tell her something like "wow, if u're the one who's teaching it, ill be in it!" that may give me the chance to see her again but it would have been like elevating her value without doing anything to deserve it
3° if i don't tell her anything she's gonna walk away and i will never see her again
4° she was in a position where she had to agree with me with almost everything.. because if she's trying to sell something, she will obviously tell me what she thinks i want to hear even if she strongly disagree in order to achieve her goal (get me into those classes).. i almost felt like if i told her "hey i wanna have sex with ur sister" she was going to tell me "ok but sign up the lessons first!!" haha i mean that she wouldn't be sincere
5° my look where not the best of all, i mean i was all sleepy and my hair was flying everywhere haha that wouldn't help me too much and it was a mistake of mine (i never thought a girl like that would have come to my door any given day, but after today i'm pretty sure that i will dressup myself since the moment i wake up!!).. so all i got left was my body language and in some kind of way i think it worked out cause when she took her eyes down she was all blushed but i still had to say something!
6° i thought like "what would and alpha male do in this situation??" but couldn't come up with anything! (i even imagined the scene like taking her by the hips and kissing her, but didn't seemed to me like the thing to do in that situation)
anyway, i couldn't decide and she was like oh ok.. we stared at each other smiling for like 4-5 seconds like "who talks first" haha and nothing i just didn't know what to say so she said again "oh yeah, well ill have to go, see u!"
guys i would really like you to tell me some options!! which u think it would have been the best thing to do?? i mean i didn't know how to game in that situation and i've always been very analytic i think it is actually one of my problems, i think too much!! maybe i judged wrong any of these 6 options i told u so i would really appreciate ur point of view!!
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