I've been studying Swinggcat's sexual connections course and I noticed something interesting that I need your opinion about.
In the part about passive sexual tension, Swinggcat claims that touching a woman before she touches you, kills the sexual tension. Murders the whole process.
This theory conflicts with kino escalation theory, when you're supposed to touch her right away and play the touchy type and slightly touch her now and then.

So what do you guys think?

both can work neither is wrong I like to touch tho I found that if I dont touch the relationship doesnt turn sexual

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What thugpoet said is true for myself as well. If I don't kino it never turns sexual. You should definitely kino the girl first chance you get in my opinion. As soon as I kino a girl, I can always see a difference in the way they start to behave and interact toward me. If I don't it just goes to LJBF. That simple.

I believe this is dependent on the type of game your running.
In my area I see people divided into 2 camps of how they pick up women.

see most people have no game where I'm from and everything is value related alphaness in this situation I dont believe that you touch first in this style, this is because value related game is based on wanting to posess something of value, Touching first here would cause a loss of the want of possession.

On routine pua or natural pua game the pua should touch first because how game is not based on being the alpha, the pua just has to be a higher value than her and then he can make her get sexually aroused and want to have sex with him.

See value related game is based on the girl wants to fuck to posess and pua seduction based game is based on getting her aroused enough to fuck the pua

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