Is it a bas idea to be known? Making friends with everyone, I've been in college for three weeks and I'm known by a lot of people.
I can I still pick up girls? I like three of them but they always seem to be grouped together. Help should I continue or just stop and focus on one?
Thanks guys.

Depends on how receptive they are to open relationships. You might be able to have them all, or maybe just 2, or if they don't do open relationships, then 1, or none if you don't want closed relationships. Part of this is going to be dependant on your game though, because if you attract a girl well enough, then she will want to be with you even if you let her know that you are also interested in other girls, even if they are friends.

As for being friendly and having lots of people know you, that's part of what it takes to be a great PUA. You need to have everyone like you and then you have friends in every walk of life and you can easily move into any group in any clique and succeed. Its also massive social proof. If you have a small group of close friends, then you have some social proof, if you have a lot of decent friends, then more social proof, and if you are friends with every second person you walk by, then you're next thing to god (remember Van Wilder?).

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true dude i understand. but now i think i have a problem with phase shifting. i get them reeled in but then im at a stand still. any idea or routine i can do?
And ya van wilder cool i can seemyself as that. thanks man!

I like Style's method of phase shifting. When you realise you are at that point, whether it be because you are thinking to yourself, "hey, that was 3 IOIs" or "hmmm, should I kiss/put my arm around her" then you know its the time and you just picture gears slamming into place. You just shift gears, from attraction and comfort, to it being time to kiss and you leave behind all your hangups. Just use your kiss close routine of choice, ie "do you want to kiss me?" and own your state of mind when shift from one to another. If you are still thinking like you were when you were opening, or when you were attracting her initially and you try to progress further, its gonna fail, because you aren't in the right mindset.

I can guarantee you that, throughout your interaction, her mindset is constantly changing. She starts off slightly on guard maybe because you're just some random guy, then you win the group over and neg her and she starts to wonder why you aren't hitting on her like everyone else. Then she gets attracted to your personality and then you make her feel comfortable with you, so that she is comfortable expressing that attraction, because at first she isn't. She's already gone through 3 or more mindsets, so you have to do the same, otherwise you are moving apart and you need to be moving closer together.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye