I don't know what happened to me. I've always been a shy guy but not to this point. It's at a point where I derive no pleasure from my life and spend my time at home wondering "what could have been".

I was out at a club last night and now, all of a sudden, I'm that guy who just stands in the corner with his beer in one hand, tapping his foot to the beat and looking down. A buddy of mine has noticed this problem of mine and keeps trying to get me out of it.

Thing is, I truly believe that I have absolutely nothing to offer any woman, and that they all look at me with disdain. A friend of mine brought over a girl to talk to me last night, and when I saw her my mind went blank, my eyes widened and I began to perspire. Stuttering, I yammered out a phrase and naturally she was not interested in me and walked away.

Now I'm at home wondering why it is I can't talk to women anymore.

Any advice?

Forget about the girl that you met. You would probably never meet her again.
Don't let that incident or any other incidents bother you.

Women are human beings too, just like you and me. Try talking to them like she's one of your guy-friends.

Try improving your appearance.(Hair, clothes, ect) The more better you feel about yourself, the more confidence you will have.

When trying anything new, of course it's going to be hard. Practice, Practice, Practice! Talking to a girl will get easier over time.

Nothing wrong with wearing Clear shades into the club I have pair.
Great for locking in a target.

Make sure they're clear shades u don't want to be looking like Ray Charles bumpin into stuff.

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Effort surpasses Talent, but of course I already have Talent I'm just putting Effort on Top of that

It's all about you. Woman and Men both feel the same at first, they're not worthy for the other sex. Any man is just as good as any woman. It's how you see yourself that helps first. If you're talking to a woman negs help a lot. They bring a girl from high up to where you want her.

I'd say probably take some time and think of what you want outside of HB's. What would give you the best edge on them. I prefer style and odd end objects to get womens attention. HB's don't dictate if they like you or not, you do that.

That is a sticky situation. I have a friend in a similar situation except i dont know if he is as active as you, trying to over come your anxiety. I know I used to be deathly shy of girls and im serious. Then i got a little older, done some really awesome things and i started to become more confident. I think some of my confidence came with being able to talk about credible things. Maybe this PUA lifestyle really is a life changing event. Mystery says, if you don't have a good story, dont necessarily lie about it...go make one. Go out and be what you imagine. maybe this is in your occupation, your physical features, and definatly in the world of women. I like how mystery explains that you are completely free if you can just let go of your emotional response to what a women's response is, good or bad. Don't think that all of these popular PUA's became so good without any bumps in the road. look at style, seriously. you know that guy must have had some awkward situations. He talks about it in some of his interviews...Go out and expect to have some awkward conversations, you have to go through the pain first before you get good at it. Everyone deals with approach anxiety and issues of not knowing what to say next at times. I am often afraid to approach really good looking women, sometimes i have the balls to, other times i dont. I have a number of success stories and a book full of completely embarressing unsuccessful stories. I am still trying to get good enough to try and not feel that anxiety but it hasn't happened yet! we're all in it togeather man and hopefully that makes it easier. So i gues some hopefully quick fix advice...look up neil strauss on youtube and he talks about that plenty and i feel he is a credible source for sure!

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The Bachelor's Code by Tyler. Check it out...
http://www.thebachelorscode.com/

Don't continue carrying the thought that you are too shy to socialise. Think about how badly this will affect your life if you carry this thought in your mind for another 10 or so years... All the missed opportunities and feeling like shit, just from one little thought. Ger rid of it now. Think about all the GAINED opportunities if you held the OPPOSITE thought with you into the future, that you are confident and enjoy socialising with people. If you think this way then it's not even gonna matter to you if you get shut down

Tell me WHY you think it is that you're so shy around others?

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"To guys, getting laid is a chore.
To women, getting laid is a choice"

-Ross Jeffries

As Steve P. the godfather of seduction says.. Nothing builds the confidendce like sexual COMPETANCE.
Become an expert on the topic of what makes women feel good. All you need to do is read up on a bunch of material like David Shade and whatever else you can get your hands on and see what happens from there. White Tiger Tantra is the best material out there but extremely hard to get your hands on as it costs about $500 and only a minimal amount of copies were made

Knowing that you can give a girl a better orgasms than any other guy in the room will give you an unmovable confidence

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"To guys, getting laid is a chore.
To women, getting laid is a choice"

-Ross Jeffries

to be honest, im hoping that when i give a girl an orgasm there sure as fuck better not be ANY OTHER GUY in the room!!

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http://www.youtube.com/profile_videos?user=Divinity79

alright dude... what u need to do is break away from it for a while. find something else to preoccupy your time and ur mind, and ur brain. Start working out a lot and have maybe 1 to 2 alcoholic beverages per day. U'll be ready to go in 2 months.

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Cuz I don't break hearts...I just dent them

Three shots of jagermeister. Stop at the bar as soon as you walk in. Start out with the mopeds in the room and work up your courage. Not saying it'll make you a super hero but it sure helps. Beer's not going to cut it if it's that bad.