| Hi guys, I p hyuga write this post as a changed man. I was always used to going out with a wing but last night all that changed. Me and my wing were joking about going out around 4pm, everything seem great. Then I got a text around 8 saying he has some bad news, the first thing that comes to mind was that someone died but it turns out that he was sick. I had the stupid look on my face because he was good four hours ago but work still had to be done.
My first time going it solo, it was crazy at first but I had a plan. I would go to Manayunk because I was comfortable there and focused on all the fun that I had in that area in the past. My first stop was Yunkers, I was in there trying to get the positive energy going but I was like stuck in the middle. I was in there for 30min and decided to leave because I feel I lost too much value. My wing texted me saying to push for the both of us and I looked at my phone while walking Main Street like dame I’m failing not only myself but him too. So the first set I seen I decide to just open my mouth a say something anything would work to broke the AA.
There was a one set approaching as I was walking up the strip, she was going down so I was like “go bitch if you don’t try you have really failed” to myself. I opened by telling her that she looked cute in her dress. First warm up down and some of my energy and resolve was restored. I walk to McGillicuddy's and headed for the upstairs dance floor. The DJ was playing old school hip hop and rap (Grandmaster Flash and the Furious Five & more). Busted a few moves this HB8 was watching my foot work, not to far away from me. A few other girls were watching because I was the only one dancing at the time. I approached the HB8 after a few IOI’s so that the odds of me getting rejected were slim to none.
I opened with you have to dance too, you can’t just watch me. She smile and we started to talk and dance. I had to do most of the work because she said that she had no rhythm, I was like yea right. I showed her a few moves and her male friend came over. A cool guy even though he was drunk and having girlfriend problems (found out from HB). I was dancing and having fun and she was always near me, I use some takeaways and IODs (turning my back to her) but she kept coming over to me. We started to grind and get close (freaky), laugh and smile. I made friends with the guy and got a free beer for all my work (nice), so I decided to go for the #close. I future paced about going out as a large group, she yea and started to put her # in my phone then O have a boyfriend still putting the # in the phone. I was like WTF to my self and said bring him too.
I then started to game HB’s got blow out a few times and kept battling on. I run game on this HB9 in a two set by going direct. Hi my name is (name), I don’t care if you have a man, or married or engaged I want you to dance with me. It worked to open and I started to dance with group. These two afc’s were hawking the set and I ejected and started to dance alone on the other side of the dance floor. Proximity alert, then the set comes to me, I re-engaged my target but the friend was gave me more IOI. So I pushed for my original target (not easy at all). The two afc’s were still hawking the set and me, so I asked the obstacle “are they your boyfriends?” She said no! I have no boyfriend (IOI).
I asked the HB9 what would it take for you to fall in love with me? She laughed and said it’s not that easy baby; I said I love a challenge and said you already calling my baby. She had a look of shock and I smiled and asked her what sign she was. She said Leo and I started treading about her personally. My sister is a Leo so I know that sign will. I chased a little then the obstacle pulled my target away and that was that.
In the end I learned a lot about myself and felt stronger. I would recommend that at least once go out solo for a few reasons. First to see if you have the balls to do it, second to feel the pain of pua’s that don’t have wingman. I think that going out alone broke me down and built me up (Marine style). To all the pua’s that go out solo you have all my respect and I wish you guys luck.
Any tips for AA for sarging solo would be nice because my wing would just snap me out of it and last night I had to battle that demon a lone. _________________ Passed 1 test, many more to come. Chuunin rank
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